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Here to vent about a fwb that’s no longer a fwb I think. We dropped the benefits and are cool friends which is so nice, but I can’t help feelings like I did smth wrong? Like that I was getting too attached and they saw it and stopped inviting me over
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Anonymous 1w

Looking back I definitely was getting attached but then why tell me how you miss me when I leave and how you like me and cuddle me and hold my hand and kiss my forehead? Were we drunk and high when we said all that? Yeah so ik I shouldn’t have taken it seriously. And then losing my virginity with this friend after months of warming into it meant more to me than I realized. I was super emotional the morning after when I had to leave and I wouldn’t blame them if they realized we shouldn’t do this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Anymore cause that was the last time we ever did anything, and that was almost 3 months ago. We were never into sexting so whenever we weren’t together we chatted as normal, but now they’ve stopped saying they miss me entirely and stopped sending suggestive texts. Ik I’m not entitled to an explanation cause they were clear to say this was all platonic but I still wish I knew if I did smth wrong. I felt so wanted and understood and gender affirmed for the first time and I feel like I fucked it up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

cause I got too attached, and I’m too scared to ask in fear of looking more needy than I did that morning. The most I’ve done is suggest that I’m down for anything over the break if we’re both free just to open the door. Tho on one hand I’m glad we aren’t fwbs cause the attachment would’ve gotten worse as I hang out more with their friends and realize they’re just really affectionate with everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I thought I was over it but when hanging out with the rest of our friends I felt jealous when they were real close/touchy with someone in their circle and thinking they were hooking up now. It’s literally not my business but goddamn idk what I want anymore

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