I never got the “moment” of putting on a binder and feeling flat because even with a binder, I’m nowhere near flat. I worry that somehow not having this moment makes me less trans, even though I logically know that’s my brain being mean.
I’ve got big boobs and never felt flat, but that doesn’t make me any less trans. It just means I’ve got a big chest. Same with you :)
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Anonymous7w
Sometimes some of us have to work harder than others to feel like ourselves, but it doesn’t make you any more or less trans, it just means you’re strong for working with it and through it. Stay tough king 🫶
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Anonymous7w
Remember not all men are flat either! Before I (tfem) started hrt, I already had a slightly bumpy chest. Nothing you could call tits, but definitely not flat as a board