Anonymous #1 1d

right? "wasted my 20s" and she's like not even halfway through... girl ur gonna be okay dww babe

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Anonymous #1 1d

no shade ofc i just hope she doesn't feel like its over for her or anything

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Anonymous #3 1d

Its more so the aging and glow-down that bothers me

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Anonymous #2 1d

Ppl a grade below me already graduated college. Will never have that college girl party era. Supposedly the best time of ones life.

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Anonymous #2 1d

Not over. Just best part of it wasted as a man

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Anonymous #1 1d

Thats like prime years tho

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Anonymous emmeline 14h

I feel you, I have a similar feeling but with disability instead 🫂 Maybe try to figure out your local area’s lgbt spaces and party there

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Anonymous #4 10h

Not the same to have to limit urself to other spaces. Also the idea being like 30 at a party makes me feel like a creep

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Anonymous emmeline 10h

wdym not the same to have to limit urself to other spaces? also you're not 30 you're literally 23

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Anonymous emmeline 9h

if u had to pretend to be a man it clearly wasn't the best part of it. ur comparing ur life to a life u created but it doesn't exist and the story ur telling urself isn't true. ur ability to party doesnt end at 22, & it certainly doesnt end when u graduate college. im not tryna be harsh or invalidate ur experience but the idea that 18-22 is the peak of young adulthood is a teenage misconception & you need to get over it before u can move forward & take what u do have

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Anonymous emmeline 9h

There’s plenty of party spaces for adults (queer night clubs) or even cute pride events and arts and crafts stuff. It may not be a hardcore party but it is just a suggestion on how to feel better if you wanna get outdoors and have some kind of fun :)

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