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girlfriend here, update: he took his second dose of estrogen today, supposedly "for the bit"
Ok so my gf was talking about how long sublingual estrogen takes and I told her that she’s just impatient (lightheartedly dw) so she had me take one of her old doses to settle the argument and I readily agreed but I’m def still cis right
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Anonymous 14w

i was gonna say “maybe he was just being silly” but silly two days in a row? i think you might’ve preordered girl

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Anonymous 14w

i mean part of trans culture is overcommitting to the bit

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Anonymous 14w

I love everyone being so supportive of them, brings me so much joy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

have fun in your t4t relationship!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Sadly I did run out of pills (I'm on injections now) so idk if they'll want to do the injections so idk if they'll keep taking E

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

maybe they can go to planned parenthood and get some? they seem to be enjoying it!! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

we'll see what happens, they're prolly gonna put a bit more thought into it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

ya that’s definitely a good idea. do you have any clothes they could try?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

many clothing, they do like dressing fem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

im glad!!! one way to help figure things out (at least for me) was having someone use different pronouns just to see if that’s something i like being referred to as. its how i knew i wasn’t non-binary

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

oh and also maybe they can try shaving their legs if they don’t already

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

They've tried leg shaving before, the ruling is that while it does make them happy, the effort is not worth the reward

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

hmmm maybe can try nair? its a lot less effort and the hair stays off longer!! they just have to be careful to follow the instructions exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

maybe, they thought about it, i'm scared of chemical burns

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Bf here, can confirm that I do feel a lot better without body hair but shaving sucks so much ass (also laziness/depression makes it tougher), am interested in nair but am just nervous bc I’ve never used it before (and I’ve heard it smells a lot)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

hi!! so 1. shaving does suck ass😭 im a trans woman and it takes me so long 2. nair does smell but if you have a good bathroom vent it’ll be ok. 3. you just have to make sure not to rub it in and make sure you don’t leave it on for more than 10 minutes and that you do a test patch so you understand how long it needs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Maybe tmi but have you used nair for pubic hair/sensitive areas in general bc I hate shaving around there as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

DEFINITELY dont do that. i’ve tried and it is way to easy to get on your genitals. it can really burn there so i recommend not doing that. i usually have a bit of cream accidentally get on there but i can usually get it off in time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

also don’t worry about tmi im here to help!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

also VERY IMPORTANT if you do burn yourself its a chemical burn so you treat it with cold compress. its not like razor burn that can be soothed with lotion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Tysm for the information!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

ofc!!! anytime!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

See the thing is is that I am already the king of spontaneously starting and committing to very dumb bits

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

SO TRUE I LITERALLY LEARNED OF THE WORD "BIT" FROM A TRANS GUY

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

i committed so hard to the bit that i fell in love with my “if we’re single when we’re 30 we’ll just get married” best friend and we’ve been dating for four years oh and she came out as trans too like a couple hours before we started dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

HOLY SHIT THAT'S AMAZING

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

we swapped a lot of clothes because we’re both trans but opposite directions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

and she introduced me to helldivers we play it with a good friend of ours and the emotes in it can be so funny we joked that the clasping hands indefinitely one is what our wedding will be. just us in arm wrestling position for like an hour with a friend standing behind us

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

that's so amazing and funny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

that game is so unserious i love it and i love her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Definitely smells but I’ve used it whole body and as long as you follow the instructions your good

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Nair isn’t bad, it def smells but it does a good job. Sometimes the timing is off depending on the thickness of the hair you want removed but it gets it down to just a little longer than a close shave, and from there it’s easier to manage day to day if you have an electric razor

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

And honestly you don’t want it completely shaven cause ingrown hairs

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