one of these cousins is like 50 (w/ a unisex name), the son of an aunt that I grew up around, but he was too old for me to see him much. the other is the daughter of a cousin, currently being raised by an aunt that i see at family reunions once every couple years. i had to double check to see if her name was the same the one on my list of potential names, bc i barely know her. literally wouldn’t recognize either one in a crowd, but I know they exist