I mean, clothes don’t always have to have gender but society does view certain things as more masculine or more feminine. I think what helped me decide that I truly wasn’t cis was that I genuinely felt that clothing stereotypical to my assigned birth-sex made me feel off/not happy. If you see clothing as less of a gender affirming tool and more as a hobby, then maybe it is just a cross dressing thing. In the end, it’s all about self exploration and what words/terms and clothing makes you feel ok

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looking into other people’s experiences to see if you relate tbh. if you want educational resources to see if being trans/nonbinary fits you, look up “Trevor Project ally to trans people” for an article or “gender book second gumroad” if you want to look into it more in-depth :>

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i wanna be seen as a man and if i wear a dress i wanna be seen as a man in a dress. do you want to be seen as the gender or as someone dressing stereotypically as a different gender?

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