
Trans fem and trans masc are *USUALLY USED AS* umbrella terms, like a trans fem person could be someone who’s transitioning from a man to a woman but it could also be someone transitioning from a man to a more feminine/neutral nonbinary identity. And the opposite for trans masc. But everyone’s definition of these words is different so it depends on the individual.
agree with #2 but can’t reply to the thread because the comment was deleted transmasc is not a “polite” way of saying “transgender afab” it’s a label to describe a trans person embodying a masculine gender (may or may not be a man). same for transfemme, it’s not a “polite” way to say “transgender amab” it describes a trans person who has a feminine gender (may or may not be a woman).
i understand that perspective and also want to recognize that for a long time there has been very aggressive messaging that transmascs are not trans men, especially as it was developing as a community/identity label, it was intended to distinguish masc gender identities that were not men from (trans) men. the usage of it as an “umbrella” term is newer and more contentious, in many contexts it is unclear or muddies meanings.
transmasc is a gender. someone may be a fem trans man, they’re not “masculine,” they’re a man. alternatively, they may just not identify with masculinity. the inverse is true for trans women. butch trans women exist and some of them do not view themselves as trans*fem*. disconnecting masculinity/femininity from man/woman is pretty foundational to many trans people’s experiences.