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idk whether i’m genderfluid or a trans man who has pushed things down so far that im numb to being misgendered but there is sometimes a deep devastation in me i will never feel like i can be a boy who loves a boy
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Anonymous 1d

WE are gay men bro, we are just as valid as anyone else and anyone who disagrees is a bigot

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Anonymous 1d

you can let him out. it's so freeing to get to be gay

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Anonymous 21h

I get that. Im genderfluid and im confident in knowing what i am but like i still get upset that i can’t really ever be in a gay relationship with a woman. It always ends up being a straight relationship cause they just see my man side or im a commodity or a feminine man. I can never truly be in a gay relationship with a woman and it upsets me deeply. Although i am in fact confident im genderfluid. Even though ik committing to being fully trans would make it easier to make that happen. Ykwim?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

part of it for me is just not feeling sure about what i am too

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Anonymous replying to -> transknifey 21h

Idk about you personally but with the context youve given i think our experiences are kinda parallel

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Anonymous replying to -> transknifey 21h

yeaaa i gotta agree… like im most likely genderfluid and its like difficult to be like with a guy in a boy loves boy way and not just a “u see me as a girl” loves a boy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I think its one of our unfortunate realities until the world gets a major update on gender roles and expressions :/

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Anonymous replying to -> transknifey 19h

yeah :(

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