Chiming in (talk to ur surgeon abt this btw dont just do what we said we did), I was able to "shower" the whole time. I rinsed my hair in the bathtub leaning over by myself during the first week w/out lifting my arms too high, "showered" my lower half regularly, and wiped everything else. I was cleared to shower w/ my back to the faucet after 1 week, could face the front after 2. I had DI w/ grafts (the grafts were why showers could only be from the back)