
my partner and i started dating about two years before i started hrt (audhd t guy) and our four year anniversary was a couple months ago so 100% possible! also defo right ab the mental health thing, i wasnt in the best place when we started going out (better than before that tho somehow) and he was actually the kick in the ass i needed to get out of my head and start trying to be better and we're both happier now that im in a good place mentally, im incredibly lucky to have him lol