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Trans Talk 10w
hi i need advice as someone who is trans MTF. this story is nsfw so just a disclaimer before you read. its posted in the comments below this.
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Anonymous 10w

im stealth so everyone thinks im cis. recently a boy i used to be friends with got outed for being on grindr looking for trans girls to hook up with. ik it sounds weird but i really want to lose my virginity before heading to college next month. is this my chance? if so, how do i ask? i'm worried he'll out me which atp i don't care about but that would be such an awful way to be outed but i rly feel like this is my opportunity

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i mean this is just me being cautious but if you're so worried about him outing you, its not worth it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

he sounds like a chaser and genuinely virginity is HIGHLY overrated. it's better to be with someone you love than to hookup with someone just for the ability to say you're not a virgin. no one fucking cares if you're a virgin, I didn't lose my virginity till college, it's not a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

also you will have SO MANY more opportunities at college than you do now. like I dated NOBODY prior to college but I have now dated like 4 people (over 4 years) and like... I'm glad that I waited for college where the amount and quality of queer people was SO MUCH BETTER

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