Trans Talk on Yik Yak | i know bottom surgery is less common for trans men/transmascs, but it’s crazy how i literally feel like an alien trying to talk about bottom dysphoria at all with other people let alone actual surgical plans

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Trans Talk 7w

i know bottom surgery is less common for trans men/transmascs, but it’s crazy how i literally feel like an alien trying to talk about bottom dysphoria at all with other people let alone actual surgical plans

Anonymous 7w

I definitely relate. I have bad bottom dysphoria and will be getting phallo when I’m able. I used to date another trans guy and was surprised at how much he just did not get it. There are so many people who just don’t seem to understand. It’s fine if your dysphoria in that area isn’t as bad, but as trans people, shouldn’t you be able to have somewhat of a grasp on how bottom dysphoria works?

Anonymous 7w

I wish more people realized there are more options than just phallo! I'm personally planning to get part of my labia removed so my dick like.. stands out more if that makes sense

Anonymous 7w

I'm getting my first step towards bottom surgery (hysterectomy) done soon and I'll be doing more once I have the money 🙏🙏

Anonymous 7w

Transmasc here and tbh I probably will not get bottom surgery (at least until way in the future) but I did research different methods and the pros and cons because I like being informed

Anonymous 7w

For me its not close enough to a cis penis for it to be worth it, for some people it totally is, I’m just not a fan of any of the methods yet

Anonymous

#1 7w

do you want a cookie?

Anonymous

#2 7w

yep great. thank you. such a helpful comment. it definitely does not contribute at all to me feeling like an alien to be told that phallo is “not close enough to a cis penis.” 👍

Anonymous

#2 7w

I know you didn’t mean any malice, but some people don’t get to choose not to have surgery. Please think of the impact your comment may have on others’ dysphoria. It’s fine to feel this way, by all means don’t get surgery if you don’t want it, but there’s a time and a place.

Anonymous

#5 7w

thank you for getting it. i know i’ve been snarky but damn. it sucks to make a vent post and get hit with the same comments/disconnect i’m complaining about.

Anonymous

#6 7w

congrats!! just had my hysto/vnectomy consult but i’m going thru fertility preservation first and i literally feel like i’m in a saw trap.

Anonymous

OP 7w

😭 why is someone making you do that

Anonymous

#7 7w

i’m not being forced to, i’m going thru an egg retrieval so my wife can carry a baby that is genetically related to me. that’s just part of how we want to build our family and it does scratch a psychological dysphoria itch for me (kinda). reproductive dysphoria is probably the manifestation of dysphoria i struggle most with bc there isn’t really shit you can do abt it/everythings a compromise. this egg retrieval process is extremely hard on me mentally rn, but it’s just a couple months (🤞)