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istg, half the time I trust cishet women as a transmasc, they eventually use me as a malgendering punching bag whenever I do smth traditionally "masculine." I told a friend I was worried I might be avoidant and she said smth like this comment ⬇️ it pmo
53 upvotes, 11 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Trans Talk. "istg, half the time I trust cishet women as a transmasc, they eventually use me as a malgendering punching bag whenever I do smth traditionally "masculine." I told a friend I was worried I might be avoidant and she said smth like this comment ⬇️ it pmo"
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Anonymous 1w

also: when I first started transitioning, one of my friends started acting weird around me, and she said smth like “you’re not a woman anymore, so I don’t know if I can trust you to not see me differently” and it sounded like she thought I’d have a drastic personality shift or smth? idfk, we stopped being friends for unrelated reasons

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Anonymous 1w

This is why the misandry as a joke thing pisses me off cause like girl it’s not feminist to be a bigot. Like yea men are a privileged group but interpersonally that doesn’t stop anyone being bigoted towards them. It just means the government and institutions won’t do anything. Shits annoying as hell.

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Anonymous 1w

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, it’s this shit that delayed my realization and acceptance that I was a guy for a good 6 or 7 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Also like it’s fucking millimeters away from bioessencialism 99% of the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

one of my friends freshman year got harassed by an RA since he was on the girl’s floor at like 2 am… with his friend, helping her put up a projector screen. in her room. and the RA just started yelling at him and saying shit like “I can’t sleep with the smell of you men on the floor” and I wish he reported that shit. ik it’s more prevalent online, but regardless of location it’s just awful 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

mind you, he was IN HER ROOM, not the hallway. the door was open & the RA walked in uninvited and just started yelling. the guy and the friend were just standing there frozen when I got there, I gen wanted to sock the RA. ugh.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Christ that’s infuriating. Also non co-ed dorms are stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

BRUH I DIDNT SEE THE SECOND ONE THATS EVEN WORSE WHAT

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

mind you, he’s asexual and she was making comments like “you’re only here to get into her bed” and later he told me that being seen as a sexual force like that made him feel sick. and she was bodyshaming him and everything 😭 it was awful. just using her authority to excuse literal harassment. still pissed abt it and I regret not reporting her myself before she graduated.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

lwe had some issues where he’d seen withdrawn and just do no-shows, and when we talked it was bc he didn’t want to seem “too interested” and thought one of our friends saw him differently because of what the RA z said + his own anxiety about it. this was years ago but I’m getting pissed off again, so I’m putting the phone down

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

we had* he’d seem*

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