
top surgery was such a fight with my family and my mom was so mad at me after every appointment. i want phallo too (certainly not at a point now in my life where i can get it, but maybe ten years down the road) and i don't plan on telling them. i feel like it's just going to be another issue and i'll be spending too much money on it but im really jealous of how beautiful and comfortable with themselves famous trans people are, and my hips and waist have always been something not comfortable