Estrogen is powerful, but it isn't a miracle, there's no guarantee that it will fix *everything* that you don't like about yourself, in fact it probably won't, and expecting it to will only make you feel worse. that said, even the stuff it didn't totally fix about me, it helped. years of transitioning later, I still have leg hair, but i'm more fine with it now.
I’m gonna be honest that was the opposite message I needed to hear right now. I’m not expecting it to be a replacement for therapy or smth I just want it to fix the bit of hair loss I had before I was able to get on hrt. And also make my outline and face more feminine. But tbh mostly the hair I’m super super dysphoric about that. Realism is not the direction I need right now because my tendency is to underestimate what estrogen can do already. So pushing me further into that direction