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my boyfriend (cis) just told me after more than a year of dating that he doesn’t know if he’s gay. (i’m ftm) idk how to feel rn
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Anonymous 13w

Sometimes people aren’t compatible with one another; don’t detransition for one guy

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Anonymous 12w

canon event you gotta get out

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Anonymous 12w

did he say it was specifically because of you or a more general life happening?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

oh i’m not it just sucks, im pre medically transitioning but starting soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

now i feel like i was just a test run for gayness :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

If it helps there's a solid chance he never saw you as a man in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

we’ve been together for over a year :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

he doesnt tell people he’s dating anyone cause he’s scared of the perception

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Dude. Canon event. He sees you as a woman. Get out asap.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I see posts like this at least once a week trust me on this one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

he said it’s more of the perception of being gay, idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

If he's telling everyone else you're a woman he probably sees you as a woman as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Ask him if he'd stay with you if you start testosterone and that's your answer right there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

he just says he’s not dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

i’m scared to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

do it anyway. you can't put your life on hold out of fear and indecision

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