I think part of the reason I’m just SO miserable at home right now isn’t even just the fact that my mother is super enmeshed and emotionally draining and shit. But also cause no one irl knows I’m trans and I am getting called “he” and “son” and “him“ all day every day. The only people that know are my therapists but 1. Can’t really gender someone at all when you just speak to them directly and 2. Idk how well versed one of them is with trans stuff tbh. it just sucks.

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