Trans Talk on Yik Yak | I’m so nervous about seeing my whole family since coming out. My brother is having his wedding shower and I feel bad skipping it but only a few family member support me. I’m not ready to go home and be misgendered and dead named the whole time. Advice?

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I’m so nervous about seeing my whole family since coming out. My brother is having his wedding shower and I feel bad skipping it but only a few family member support me. I’m not ready to go home and be misgendered and dead named the whole time. Advice?

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Anonymous 1d

is your brother one of the supportive ones?

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Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah but it’s only him and my aunt who support me. And evvveryone will be there

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OP 1d

in that case i honestly just think you should send a text explaining, he should be understanding if he’s supportive. and then like get a nice card and write something meaningful

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