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any other ftm guys in college feel like they're never fully comfortable hanging out with girls but also they'll never fully fit in when hanging out with guys?
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Anonymous 5d

pass too much to fit in with girls, don’t pass enough to fit in with guys, pass just enough to eat oatmeal alone in my dorm & play hollow knight

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Anonymous 4d

honestly yeah, but probably not how y’all’s are feeling. i don’t pass enough to be seen as a guy, so i get treated too much as a girl, and obviously guys don’t see me as a guy :/

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Anonymous 5d

Totally get this. It feels kinda odd because I wanna hang out with girls but I’m seen as this outsider because I’m a dude but with the guys I’m this outsider because I’m not a hyper masculine dude

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Anonymous 5d

it mainly feels weird to me when it’s strangers

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Anonymous 5d

i seem to only make friends with women which is fine by me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

YES this is what I meann 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

🤝 on a real note tho i feel you bro, i would love a group of guy friends but i would feel like the odd one out. 99.9% of my friends in life were/are girls, & they were all great people, but again: felt like the odd one out (but in a different font this time)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

no this is actually exactly what I mean and it's so frustrating!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

Relating here too :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

🫂

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