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Trans Talk 5w
i'm going on a 7 day cruise next week with my mom who knows i'm trans and claims to be supportive yet deadnames and misgenders me and my aunt and uncle who don't know but probably think i'm a lesbian. i've been on t for 2 years but idk if they'll ask me
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Anonymous 5w

idk if i should come out to them bc i think my aunt would be at least somewhat supportive (she has a lot of lesbian friends but idk if she knows anything about being trans) or just pretend it doesn't bother me unless they ask

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Honestly just talk in a low voice and go into the men’s room and let them put 2 and 2 together no need to have a big coming out of you don’t feel like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i mean i do that anyway but it's more of i would like them to use my name and pronouns but idk if they would since my mom knows and doesn't. i really don't care what anyone thinks i just don't want to go a week only being gendered correctly by strangers

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