jiggyjug on Yik Yak | Hi, I’m a AMAB wanting to transition but I have family who is incredibly against trans individuals, they’re the only family I have left and do not want to jeopardize that, but I also can’t get keep lying to myself. Anybody have any advice? :)

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jiggyjug

Hi, I’m a AMAB wanting to transition but I have family who is incredibly against trans individuals, they’re the only family I have left and do not want to jeopardize that, but I also can’t get keep lying to myself. Anybody have any advice? :)

Anonymous 5w

Call and ask your insurance agency about privacy. For me I am able to use my insurance without my parents even being able to see the provider. Just the date and dollar amount. So I just lie about what type of visit it was. But other agencies and states will differ so you should ask. But even if insurance isn’t an option many hrt clinics have sliding scale payment plans. And also what 1 Said like makeup and nail polish and cloths can help as well.

Anonymous 5w

clear nail polish and clear mascera can help

Anonymous 5w

you're gonna have to make a choice

Anonymous

#2 5w

Hi so i want to try and do that but i live with said family, what do i do when i try to dress fem, or even secretly transition and they notice?

Anonymous

jiggyjug 5w

I’m not sure I can help you there tbh. I’m on hrt but I’m still closeted so I haven’t dealt with any of those things yet. Also my family dynamic is pretty different than yours it sounds like.

Anonymous

#2 5w

You’re more than okay! Thank you for your advice and kindness regardless

Anonymous

jiggyjug 5w

No problem I love being able to help other trans people with this when I can🫶🫶🫶I spent a long time figuring out how to keep my hrt secret from my family so that one I definitely have experience with lol.