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Trans Talk 6w
It’s so weird having male hook ups and being ftm like if he’s straight then he’s attracted to what’s between your legs but can’t get over that you’re a guy and if he’s gay he loves that you’re a guy but can’t get over what’s in between your legs.
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Anonymous 6w

this is why i kinda feel like im pan. bc at a point its just like, wow all these parts are amazing actually. they all go together so nicely in any combo really

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Anonymous 6w

my ex was trans, pre-medical transition at the time we dated, and he was always a guy to me, no different in that respect than if he'd been born with with a penis. there's variation person to person, but for me (trans guy, didn't know it back then), if someone wants to date me, they need to see me as a guy, and that includes my genitals

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Me, I was like wow I'm dating a guy but also these are new parts? do I care about new parts? eh, I like him and that's what matters, who gives a shit about what parts he has, and then a few months later I realized I was pan

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

So all I’m hearing is pan men are where it’s at

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

It probably is. My gf at the beginning of our relationship said she "wished she was bi" after we had sex once, referring to my ~parts~ and I was like ma'am you are trans, you hate the "best of both worlds" rhetoric. Break up with me or stop talking. She got over it, but ik I'd never say or even think that abt anyone & I'm bi/pan (functionally either/both, I j like the word bi more). I hate that people tie gender to genitalia so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

my ex (not the one mentioned earlier but also trans guy) told me that before he discovered poly he was sad he couldn't date someone with a dick and bobs but then trans girls exist and they're perfect for him. so like... most bi/pan people are fine but remember that no identity protects you from being a chaser

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

also, do I tie genitalia to gender? absolutely not but I will do so to fuck with chasers and force the assholes to think about the fact that what they really want is to be able to fuck a man but are scared of homosexuality

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

this comment is about chasers that seek out trans women btw

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