i looked up tamil names that start with the same letter as my deadname and picked from there
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Anonymous10w
Shortened version of my deadname (childhood nickname), changed one letter to turn it into a traditionally male name. Would have been more creative but this is what was easiest for my parents
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Anonymous10w
originally I was gonna go with the girl name my parents chose, then realized I was non-binary so I went with a color instead (it’s in the rules)
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Anonymous10w
used the name of a side character i wrote into a story as a kid that my cousin compared me to as "you but if you were a guy" right before i figured out i was a dude and it kind of stuck rip
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Anonymous10w
Used my grandmothers with her blessing
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Anonymous10w
Well I was comfortable with my birth name (it’s gender neutral) and I wanted to change my middle name and looked at what month my lucky number was and boom
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Anonymous10w
Maybe see what your parents would’ve named you
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Anonymous9w
All mine evolved from internet nicknames …. Wouldn’t recommend actually
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Anonymous9w
I named myself after my favorite gangster movie 😔 and then smushed my two middle names together to make one super long masculine one
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Anonymous#110w
Eh fair enough. My birth names TECHNICALLY gender neutral too but it’s like 90% of the time a boys name. And I want something more obviously feminine yk.
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Anonymous#110w
I am nowhere close to comfortable enough with them to ask that🧍 And besides part of my transition for me is forging my own identity outside of their influence (trauma stuff. My mothers quite manipulative) So I’d much prefer to come up with it myself lmao
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Anonymous#110w
How’d you figure out your lucky number btw? I’m just curious ngl.
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Anonymoussissy10w
Fair enough
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AnonymousOP10w
I’m probs gonna do something similar tbh
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Anonymoussissy10w
(tamil’s my mother tongue btw)
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Anonymoussissy10w
Yea dw I gotcha🙂↕️
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AnonymousOP10w
Yeah I feel you also mine was just the day of the month I was born, it’s just like a gut feeling, like when you can choose a number for yourself what you go with
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AnonymousOP10w
Understandable
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Anonymous#310w
So, ig if your deadname has a fem/masc version (i.e. Victor or Victoria, Daniel or Daniella, etc) that would be a simple and easy route that could make social transition smoother if you’re worried abt that
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Anonymous#110w
Oooh gotcha so you were born on like 10/10 or 6/6 or something then lol?
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Anonymous#310w
Mine doesn’t really have a fem alternative like those tbh. Also in relation to smth else I already said I actually wanna move away from caring about what my family thinks about my decisions lol.
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Anonymous#410w
Nice I like colors🙂↕️
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Anonymous#610w
That’s rlly cute actually
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Anonymous#510w
That’s cool lol. Pretty unique way to figure out your name tbh.