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I’ve identified as trans for years, yet something rubs me the wrong way because I’ve never met someone like me I go by he/him, but I love wearing dresses sometimes and doing my makeup I thought maybe I’m a femboy but even then I wear showy things (1/2)
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Anonymous 21h

A completely binary gender expression is a sham and limits expression

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Anonymous 18h

You should look online, the subreddit ftm femininity is a good place to start! There are a lot of people out there with varying gender expressions. Also transgender is an umbrella term you can still call yourself trans if you wish even if you’re genderfluid or something else :D

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Anonymous 21h

Ain’t a damn thing wrong with a man wanting to wear a dress. Passing is a whole thing but you don’t need to prove anything, period. do what makes you happy and the people who respect and love you will understand

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Anonymous 20h

hey man gender really is a spectrum and you can kinda do whatever you want with it - you can and should dress or present in any way you wanna and still be a man. There’s no “rules” or right or wrong way to be a man

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Anonymous 19h

You definitely aren’t alone. I identify as a nonbinary trans man because I like to dress feminine and “man” doesn’t encapsulate how I feel about my gender. I think there technical term is demiboy, but identity is such a personal thing that only you can define what’s right for yourself.

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Anonymous 23h

that show off cleavage. I don’t want surgeries, I don’t even think I want to start on testosterone (bottom growth scares me), only on RARE occasions do I feel dysphoric and when I do it’s terrible Am I transgender or is there an identity that fits me better..? (2/2)

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Anonymous 21h

Why did I get downvoted for this? Is what I’m feeling not normal?-

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Anonymous 5h

It is time for estrogen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

My bf explained it like this; “you’re very confident in your inside gender, in the past 4 years I’ve known you you’ve never once said ‘maybe I’m girl’ but it seems like your outside gender changes” Which I think is kinda a good way to describe it? But I would say outside gender, just how I present myself Because some days I’ll wear a button up and shii! When I get married? I want to walk down the aisle in a dress then change to a suit later on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Some people are dicks/transmeds

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