
Do u have at least the slightest bit of common sense? If the answer is yes then ur fine. I’m talking about the extremists who tell women to go back to the kitchen, hit women, tell them to keep their legs closed, tell them they’re murderers if they get abortions regardless of the reason (🍇, SA, inc3st, can’t financially support children, etc) and then go on to complain about how they can’t get any girls
Well I don’t complain abt how I can’t get girls. I’m not ugly and mask my autism well, so women have liked me before, but it’s just not rly something I’m interested in. I don’t call them murderers bc of the emotions involved, but abortion is definitely murder. The first 3 reasons you listed are reasonable, similar to if someone had to kill in self defense. The last of not being able to financially support is not reasonable at all imo. My parents were dirt poor when they had my older sister
Growing up dirt poor is not a good environment for a child to live in imo. It’s like making me and my gf have kids rn. We’re both in school full time and I make less than $5k a year from working in school and would not have NEARLY enough money to even cover the cost of birth. That child would be skipping meals almost every day with almost constantly absent parents, not a good way to live life tbh
And abortion is definitely not murder. Almost all abortions r done in the first trimester, and major organs aren’t developed yet, the fetus cannot think on its own, can’t feel pain, and only has a semi developed heart at around the point where most abortions r done (~5-6 weeks). And if it’s based on morals, the average pig has the same cognitive function as a 3 year old human baby, so why do we prioritize a clump of cells that aren’t even born yet over something already existing and out in the
World with a higher cognitive function than the bundle of cells that ppl r supposedly “murdering”? Everything on earth has the potential to life except for inorganic materials like plastic, rocks, steel beams, bricks, etc. So why do we only prioritize the unborn? And what about all the existing children who die in school 🔫ings, active wars, gen0cides, and forced childbirth bc they can’t get abortion access? Or those that die from starvation, neglect, etc? R they less important than the unborn?
Have u seen the amount of girls that go for gremlin looking dudes bc of personality? It’s a common thing girls make fun of each other for bc u always see the attractive girl with an ugly bf combination but almost never an attractive dude with an ugly gf combination. Ever wonder why that is?
I personally had my preferences set to everything bc I’m not a snowflake and don’t care if dudes match with me bc it’s funny and I’ve personally gotten some weird ass shit from chopped dudes who think they’re all that. I specifically remember this one that wanted to watch me nut and shit at the same time. Was an immediate block
Some of the greatest people in all of history grew up dirt poor, and what we consider dirt poor now would’ve been quite high living standards in previous times. My sister deserved to live, now she’s in one of the top med schools in the country with a great future of helping others ahead of her. If you truly care so much about potential children’s quality of life, just show that care by not having sex until you think you can raise a child according to your standards. Be consistent in that regard,
What if your gf decides she wants to keep the baby? What will you do then? Leave? Try to force her? Abortion is traumatizing for many women, & completely avoidable in your case by simply waiting. If you don’t have enough money, the cost of birth is covered by the hospital; & if you are too poor to feed yourself we have food stamps & many charities in this country. Human life and our known likelihood+consciousness are fundamentally different from other life, that’s why it’s called murder if you
I didn’t say poor children don’t deserve to live. It’s not the type of living that CHILDREN should be going through. Knowing u may not have food on the table for every meal is something no child should EVER have to go through. Children deserve to live knowing they can meet the bare necessities (like housing, food, water, parental care, etc). Both my parents come from a very poor background and came to this country to give me a better a life which I’m very grateful for but them knowing they may
Take it. I think Bill Burr said it best: if you take someone's cake out of the oven & throw it at the wall before it gets made, they'd be mad & say you ruined their cake; bc it would indeed have turned into a cake before you changed things. We treat murder of pregnant women as double homicide, & rightfully so. I'm not answering your other questions in depth bc they are blatant whataboutism, but l think we should help all people & end violence. I'm consistent in my care and values
Not be eating that day was something they shouldn’t have been worrying about as KIDS. And my gf & I both agreed that we likely won’t ever have kids, but especially not rn since neither of us r in the right mental state or financial position to raise kids. She knows I do not want kids but if she would like to have kids in the future, we’ll likely break up since that’s something that’s not really negotiable.
I’m not saying abortion isn’t traumatizing bc no woman ever wants to go through that “just for the fun of it”, but what ur saying is u care more about the clump of cells than all the kids that die from the HUNDREDS of school shootings that happen in this country every single year, the already conscious and existing life already on this planet that could easily be protected against neglect and violence?
Plenty of things happen in life that shouldn’t, some people see that as a call to action against such things, while others view it as an excuse to avoid responsibility. Typically the greatest horrors of this world haven’t come from the events themselves so much as ppl refusing to do anything abt them & allowing them to go on. A hungry child is better than a murdered child. Idk if I’d have the same sister if my family wasn’t so poor at the time, I’m sure her upbringing informed her current
Humanitarian tendencies. I think you should really take some time to reflect. People change their minds in the moment all the time, your gf might say she doesn’t want a kid rn—but once she sees that positive pregnancy test all bets are off and you never 100% know what will happen. If you’re willing to walk out on her and a child in that situation, I personally do not think you actually care about children or other people like you claim to, it’s a selfish act. Abortion is murder
I’ve known since I was about 4 or 5 that I don’t want kids. My parents have tried endlessly to change my mind but it has not worked in the almost 18 years that they’ve been trying. We don’t regularly have sex and she’s perfectly fine with me not wanting kids. And like I said before, **IF** she wanted kids in the future, we’ll likely break up since I don’t want kids and she knows that. And a positive pregnancy test will never happen since I’m trans anyway 🤣🤣