I think what’s worse is that these incels buy into right wing manosphere content, start to believe an ideology of ‘being an alpha male’ or whatever, but then in following and supporting this content they don’t realize just how badly they’re being grifted. Like they don’t realize that the right wing accounts and platforms are profiting from their loneliness and self-perpetuate it with un-dateable ideas so that they can keep winning from these boy’s mindsets, it’s sad really
Guy to guy here, finding someone to have a relationship with isn’t some equation, you might be going about it the wrong way. It’s not “Muscles + Tall + Car + Money = Loved”, you can’t make components out of getting a relationship with someone who does know you for you. You shouldn’t earn these individual things assuming they’ll bring you somebody that’ll love you, you should be doing them to make you happy and accomplished and have a developed personality from it that people can be attracted to