
respectfully there’s a difference between having an issue with trans people and wanting to keep transgender teaching and bathroom sharing out of school. i don’t mind if someone’s trans because it’s not affecting my life, but it is affecting me if a biological girl is in the male bathroom or vice versa
i’m sorry but i don’t see how you don’t get this. imagine your daughter is in a girls bathroom and there’s a BIOLOGICAL guy that says he identifies as a woman. obviously you can argue that they won’t do anything but literally in any other circumstance where a penis is in the same bathroom as a vagina, especially when kids are involved, is a SENSITIVE topic. they even have started making transgender bathrooms to make trans people feel less uncomfortable and oppressed, and that doesn’t effect me.
i’m just saying the bathrooms were MADE for your BIOLOGICAL gender. like men have urinals, women bathrooms typically were built with baby changing stations to for them to take care of them, but now it’s also in male bathrooms too. additions can be made without taking over the whole bathroom system and rewriting it for people who don’t associate with their own gender. again not saying anything is wrong with not associating with your own gender, but there are still social norms that have to be set
i don’t, that’s not the argument being made here. what i’m saying is making it normal for someone who is biologically a male to be able to enter any bathroom is dangerous for not only kids but women, who have also been oppressed in history enough. your whole point right now kinda sounds like “we should just have one bathroom for everyone”. i’m saying there are better solutions then just letting a man go into a woman’s bathroom and vice versa.
ah yes, the incredibly important, set in stone cultural system of using the bathroom. I would be fascinated to learn if you think a 6 foot, jacked, muscular man who happens to be trans should use the woman’s bathroom, because he doesn’t have a dick. you do not know real life trans people and are taking your cues on how they behave from conservative media.
no actually i’m basing this off of the fact that i could tell you im trans right now and you would have no other choice but to believe me. online that’s okay, in a bathroom where i want to feel safe, it is not. please understand i have not said ONE bad thing about trans people in general, im focusing on the issue your posting, which you may perceive as “giving people the right to use the bathroom” and im saying “we should give people access to their own bathrooms”. same thing worded differently