
idk what church you went to but i was raised catholic and allowed to make my own decisions about continuing attending by middle school (i didn’t) and i never considered what they had to say scary. just liked sleeping in and wasn’t sure about the beings of the universe
grew up pentecostal/aog. got told the rapture could happen at any moment and you could get left behind for any reason. also god is always watching your every move so any mistake and he’ll know. the slain in the spirit stuff was fine but pretty intense. i’m not even xtian anymore and i still sometimes feel like im being watched and get have rapture fear. tbh i feel like if id been raised catholic id have a lot more normal relationship with the religion as a whole.
that could def make a difference. i mean there are def intense catholics but personally ig i just took it all and figured most of it was out of my control beyond believing in god. and i was a vehement atheist in hs lol, ive come around to believing in something but your parish would likely shun me lol
yeah it’s a Whole Thing. i think part of it is that in catholicism there’s a process to getting absolved from sin. you confess, do your penance and your done. protestants (at least the ones i know) don’t usually have that. instead, bc it’s thought there’s a direct link to god, you have to ask for forgiveness yourself but you never know if you did it right or if you’re actually absolved. that’s my guess at least, we all needed some more ritual involved in the whole process
This is lowkey why Christian is an outdated term nowadays. Like I was raised Lutheran (like protestant at its most liberal level or like catholic without the guilt and saints) and I had literally never heard of the rapture before adulthood. And yet my upbringing is under the same umbrella as people who grew up hearing that women must submit to men and demons are real. Saying you grew up Christian w/o explaining what kind is practically a waste of time it’s wild
i honestly agree. a lot of evangelicals don’t think of catholics are christian (which is kind of crazy because they were the original christian’s) but to your point of having some crazy different theologies between sects/denominations. even regions with the same denomination can vary wildly like european roman catholic and latin american roman catholic are very different in some ways
lol, the more intense than me catholics can get into it about sects of catholicism. esp around me everyone is irish/roman/latin american catholic and my fam is technically german catholic (never heard anyone else say this but my great grandma was adamant lol.) but trying to find a coinciding subsect is n the boonies is impossible so we just attended the closest thing, a roman catholic parish
see, i know so many people and protestants who claim forms of “religious guilt” as it is commonly referred to now and i just dont get it at all. idk if i’m just a weird person but i’ve never read through or learned about a religion and had parts of it like follow or scare me. completely foreign concept to me tbh