Anonymous #1 10w

if adults are sending it to you/advertising it, then that would be grooming

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Anonymous #3 10w

Well sometimes its starts through sexually charged scenes in films and television that builds on the natural curiosity at that age.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Porn under capitalism will always want more The easiest way is to manufacture sexuality and then slowly push you through algorithms into a gooner to spend money

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Anonymous #4 10w

that’s still grooming by society

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Anonymous #3 10w

So in ur opinion should we have absolutely 0 sexual implications in film and media?

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Anonymous #4 10w

Sexuality in tv vs porn are two different things Porn is making men insecure about their bodies on the low and no one wants to admit seeing bbc porn made em insecure And that denial is why trump won Bc gooners overall lower the bar for men

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Anonymous OP 10w

In tv sex is a "hey these characters" not look at these two surgically modified people who are having sex for money selling the idea of "this is a sex fantasy"

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Anonymous OP 10w

do you consider instagram beauty influencers to be grooming?

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Anonymous #1 10w

Bro so many influencers purposely put their feet in frame to capitalize on dudes with a footfetish can jack off

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Anonymous OP 10w

In PODCAST CLIPS

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Anonymous OP 10w

True but i mean my original point was that this messaging in media was like the first step in sexual curiosity as a teen. So is it grooming or just noticing things in film and tv

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Anonymous #1 10w

While not directly gooning they contribute to goon logic of instant gratification Through bbl's instead of going to the gym

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Anonymous #1 10w

Actually yes, way to many are sexualizing children or presenting them in fashion like adults

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Anonymous #4 10w

let’s not be dense. there’s always a middle ground it just doesn’t exist. explicit content should not be freely accessible nor should be as a society find it normal for it be casually woven into media especially the kind aimed at minors. damage is pretty much already done though

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Anonymous OP 10w

absolutely but I think when you talk about the insecurity aspect etc etc that’s not a purely sexual thing, and it’s not a problem only for men. Do you think young girls are being groomed by beauty/fashion influencers?

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Anonymous #3 10w

I can agree to that

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Anonymous #1 10w

Like I follow and agree with you on some to most of this. but the pivot to gooning is strange to me. The issues with porn aren’t that people jack off

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Anonymous #4 10w

I’m talking about adult fashion influencers dressing themselves

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Anonymous #1 10w

Masturbation is healthy Gooning isnt

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Anonymous OP 10w

Me masturbating to the idea of my partner is healthy Jerking off to pornstars isnt Porn is competitive sex the same to the nba

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Anonymous #1 10w

Can you provide an example?

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Anonymous OP 10w

It seems like u might be a man so I can understand not rly being exposed to it, but social media, esp insta, is just fullllllll of really unrealistic expectations for women’s appearance and like, an extreme sexualization of them, even by “non-beauty” influencers

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Anonymous OP 10w

Along with that those influencers tend to push certain ideas of what being a woman is supposed to be like, how you’re supposed to look and act and your role in relationships. Not to mention the really rampant plastic surgery these days

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Anonymous OP 10w

I actively tried to stay away from all of it but bc insta’s algorithm figured out im a woman i get it constantly. I had to delete the app eventually. And young girls have it awful too

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Anonymous OP 10w

I was like 12 when insta first came out and I was a dancer. And even tho the “algorithm” wasn’t really a thing yet, there was just this pervasive super toxic culture around body image and presentation

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Anonymous OP 10w

I guess tl;dr - even though it’s not About or Depicting having sex, that sort of rly restrictive, inescapable idea of feminine beauty DOES groom girls into certain sexual roles imo. so any talk about banning porn needs to include that sort of content

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Anonymous #1 10w

I think it’s the same kinda shit with the gym influencers for men too. the mewing, supplements, weird diets etc etc But im not rly in the thick of that

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Anonymous #1 10w

Also i have lived directly the harsh truth of how porn can lead to sexual assaults and i want no one else to live that ever again

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