being kind is always at your own expense. yeah, i don’t think you should only be kind when you see a blatant advantage in doing so. but you also definitely should be in that situation. you and i believe we should be kind just because. but i believe you should especially be kind if it means it might open a few doors
taking a chance on someone. sure saying good morning to someone isn’t inherently risky. but trusting them? that’s a kindness. letting them know you? a kindness. getting into relationships, doing business, being reliable. those are acts of kindness. and are parts of a society lots of people want. but there’s plenty of people out there content to let everyone else “behave”/be kind and just reap what they can scrape from it
i don’t believe you’re being a genuinely kind person if you aren’t willing to fully extend it beyond what i’m going to call societal politeness. anyone can say good morning but how are you responding when a friend asks you to help move. when you see a stranger with a blown tire on the side of the road. when you brother needs a ride to the airport at 6am.