It doesn’t matter what they do, they still come across like soy boys. More importantly the left doesn’t offer anything for young males (but it certainly offers many enticing things for young female), they don’t plan on doing so either, and young men are tired of being told their masculinity is the problem. What they wanna hear is that their masculinity is encouraged, their development into adulthood is also a learning curve, and they don’t wanna be shot down for wanting to lead!
Here is why I switched from Dem. But Like most things w/ dems these thoughts will continue to fall on deaf ears or be ridiculed bc they don’t fall in line with the ultra-progressive/communist ideology. A) The party and supporters spent a better prt of the last 10yrs vilifying men for simply existing. B) constant hypocrisy C) Biden admin allowing 20M+ unvetted illegals into our country. make the sex trafficking worse bc f*ck it D) more social programs = more taxes (i pay 48% already)
oh i’m not opposed to better vibes lol but style and substance work hand-in-hand. Trump’s machismo is largely flash, but his key policies (tariffs, deportations) are what make “OOH RAH LET’S MESS UP THOSE COUNTRIES/MIGRANTS” vibes feel genuine if Dems or a left alternative has the same corporate-friendly, centrist platform with a gym bro reskin, everyone (esp white guys) will see it as phony bs
I feel like not only is this attitude incorrect, really counterproductive to winning, and also just wrong. Not believing in people and considering them to be inherently dumb is not good foundation. Is someone who believes their followers to be stupid really going to be a good leader? And maybe, you’re like “well screw being a good leader, we just win / stop conservatives from winning.” then there’s your problem. That’s why you (we) lose.
I wasn’t implying you did, I just was using that to illustrate what I was saying. I understand your frustration, don’t get me wrong, but I think this framing is damaging and only divides us more. I just feel like treating people like they are dumb overall is not good for a leftist movement. It’s like, ya gotta have love for people and believe in the goodness of people! if the default is everyone is dumb, I just feel like that isn’t really grounds for the kindof of movement we need.
It is true though. There wouldn’t have been a 14 point shift to (R) by young men 18-35. The Democratic Party has spent the last decade vilifying men just for existing. Also education is not a selling point for the working class anymore. Why would they occur $60k+ in debt/expenses when they can just go to trade school for 1 year for $2k+ and earn more than most college grads upon graduating. (And no debt)
Idk maybe im being a little pedantic. I don’t think we fundamentally disagree, I just don’t like the vibes of calling people dumb, because I feel it doesn’t capture the unfair aspects of society that contribute to that being the case. It rubs me the wrong way, but that’s just how I am ig. Sorry for being kindof aggro earlier though, this is just one of those things I’m kinda sensitive on.