Anonymous #1 1d

It’s really not that simple whatsoever and fatphobia is literally rooted in classism, ableism and racism. These aren’t real issues to you? There are gaps in income, housing access, access to healthcare…. It’s more common in poorer communities bc of the factor of stress and food insecurity. It’s not a “lifestyle choice” Majority that do lose a lot of weight gain it back. The lack of compassion is astounding

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Anonymous #1 1d

This attitude causes so many eating disorders and further stigmatizes fat ppl. Which puts their health at risk

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Anonymous #1 1d

Damn didn’t know ppl were bigoted like that here

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Anonymous OP 1d

I call those excuses. This idea that it’s so normal for so many people is the problem. Your health is very important and neglecting it should be shamed, people with diseases that cause issues with weight gain know this and put in alot of work to prevent it. Also don’t lecture me on poor communities. I lived in section 8 until middle school and the overweight issues are typically from lack of needed medication. Not from being fat. I’m be compassionate for those with actual issues, not lazy

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Anonymous #1 1d

Racism and economic disparities is just an excuse? 🙄 what about eating disorders? Is that an excuse Who said anything about neglecting it???

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Anonymous OP 1d

Damn that sucks, so because I have major depressive disorder I should just give in and end it all? That’s a fantastic approach to mental health.

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Anonymous #1 1d

So many bigoted assumptions

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Anonymous #1 1d

Huh

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Anonymous OP 1d

It’s not bigoted, you just want an excuse to avoid facing the reality of the situation. The majority of overweight Americans are so because of their own lifestyle choices

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Anonymous #1 1d

No. It’s bc of economic disparity brother, open a book

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Anonymous OP 1d

You can’t blame everything on racism and economic disparities you clearly know nothing about. Don’t white knight for shit you don’t understand

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Anonymous #1 1d

You have an idealized conception not an observation of material reality

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah clearly you’ve done no research when I’ve done years of research

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Anonymous OP 1d

I fucking grew up there you out of touch bigot. I know because those people were my neighbors and it has everything to do with healthcare access. That is different. Being a lazy piece of shit doesn’t protect you from being criticized. Having actual health issues does

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Anonymous OP 1d

Anything to cope with your fragile self worth

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah right. Stop cosplaying my experience. You don’t know true poverty What does laziness have to do with anything? Why are you so bigoted?

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Anonymous #1 1d

Girl what

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Anonymous #1 1d

You hate yourself so much that you hate on ppl who have nothing to do with you

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’m pretty sure I do, you talk like every other condescending piece of garbage I run into. Because laziness is the reason for the vast majority of weight issues in this country

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Anonymous OP 1d

“nO yOu” what kind of fucking argument is that. Maybe go stuff your face to to deal with your feelings instead of trying to garner sympathy for your own personal failures

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Anonymous #1 1d

You’re literally the one hating on strangers and their bodies for no reason, mind your business??… and you clearly are not educated on the topic so you have no authority You have an elementary understanding of this, it’s hilarious. Now go off with your maga self hating friends

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Anonymous #1 1d

We have pedophiles, billionaires, genocide, war, poverty, famine, murderous world leaders and you’re gonna spend mental energy on hating strangers for their body? Like get a life. How sad for you

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Anonymous OP 1d

You’re literally the one who asked. Whatever makes you feel better, at least I’ll see old age, but hey I’m sure that research will be good when heart failure kicks in in your 40’s. I’m not maga dumbass, I just don’t have sympathy for people with no self control. Grow up and work on yourself instead of expecting everyone to cater to your personal failures

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Anonymous OP 1d

BITCH YOU FUCKING ASKED. Definitely not famine in your household from the sound of it. How sad you never learned about impulse control you fat fuck

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Anonymous OP 1d

People like you are fucking exhausting, we have a million issues in the world and you dedicate your time to defending your inability to improve yourself. I don’t have any sympathy for people with no underlying conditions that squander the life they have destroying their bodies

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Anonymous #1 23h

You’re so full of hate it’s sad, you don’t even know what my body looks like or what my lifestyle is but you choose to make assumptions and hate instead You’re bigoted and hateful just like maga. You’re really hating on like half the population without any research or understanding of what you’re talking about Yeah we have a million issues in the world and you’re so focused on hating strangers for their bodies. Pathetic. The fact that you assume fat ppl aren’t trying their hardest like

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Anonymous #1 23h

Like everyone else is all I need to know about you and your hate

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Anonymous #2 22h

Not possible

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Anonymous #3 20h

Bruh fatphobia isn’t wanting ppl to make better health choices, it’s quite the opposite. It leads to worse health outcomes. Open the schools back up

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Anonymous OP 16h

No, saying society shouldn’t cater to fat people at the expense of everyone else does not lead to worse outcomes

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Anonymous #3 14h

Who tf said that. Society should take care of EVERYONE. Not just ppl who look the way you want them to look

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Anonymous OP 14h

Nobody said otherwise dude

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Anonymous #3 14h

You did dude along with all the other commenters defending fat phobia. What do you think it is

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Anonymous OP 14h

I said they shouldn’t be prioritized at the expense of everyone else, not that they shouldn’t be supported. Those are two very different things.

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Anonymous #3 14h

Nobody said otherwise dude

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Anonymous OP 14h

You keep repeating that word, “hate.” I don’t hate. I see them as a waste of the life they were given. I don’t harbor any hatred towards someone for that. Mostly disappointment, and that word you used, pathetic. It is a bit disgusting that half the population is putting their wellbeing at risk due to lack of self discipline, I agree.

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Anonymous OP 14h

And for the record I don’t know what your body looks like but with how pissy you’ve gotten about me refusing to validate an unhealthy lifestyle I can make a pretty good guess, but hey you can prove me wrong if you want

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Anonymous #1 14h

Have you read your replies? They’re full of hate and rage. I’ve never seen so much hate and rage for strangers. Look at the way you’re obsessed with them, just overflowing with venom. At strangers! For just existing. Crazy

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Anonymous OP 14h

Yet when people say that, you call them “fatphobic”

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Anonymous OP 14h

I wrote them, so yes? If anything they’re sound a bit cocky with a sprinkle annoyance with your inconsistency on who started this whole conversation. Have you perhaps considered that you’re projecting your own anger?

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Anonymous #3 14h

You’re the one defending fat phobia in my post brother

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Anonymous #1 14h

Brother read your replies again. Theyre full of hate and venom. Ofc im disgusted with your complete disregard of human beings and minimization of racism and classism. As any decent person should be

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Anonymous OP 14h

Yes, because it’s a made-up term used to avoid any personal responsibility for poor health choices.

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Anonymous #3 14h

So you don’t know how to read books then

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Anonymous OP 14h

lol disappointment and hatred are vastly different emotions

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Anonymous OP 14h

lol you’re all over the place, and incapable of putting together a coherent argument

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Anonymous #1 14h

You said they be shamed, they’re lazy, pieces of shit, that they stuff their face to deal with emotions, personal failure, swore at me like crazy just for acknowledging fatphobia exists. You’re a hateful little elf Where’d you learn to be so hateful and judgmental of strangers?

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Anonymous #1 14h

Pathetic, fucking exhausting, fat fuck, disgusting, unable to improve themselves. Soooo much hate dude. How do you live like that? So obsessed with others’ bodies?

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Anonymous #3 14h

No literally if you just did like an ounce of research into this you’d know better but clearly that’s a waste of time for you and you’d rather be ignorant and hateful

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Anonymous #3 14h

If you’d open a book you’d know the history of slavery in this country but you clearly don’t

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Anonymous OP 14h

You’re disgusted with someone because they believe that people should take care of their body? rAcIsM and ClAsSiSm, lmfao. You can’t blame everything else for your own issues

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Anonymous OP 14h

Dude we’re not talking about slavery, we’re talking about fat people. You should work on your reading comprehension.

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Anonymous #1 14h

YOU don’t believe ppl should take care of their bodies, IM the only one advocating for that?? You want ppl to be isolated, stigmatized, hate themselves & have EDs. That’s not taking care of health Again, you can’t even bother to read a history book to learn. You small minded liberals can’t think critically or systemically about anything. Everything is individualized personal moral failings. I’m so sorry poor, black and brown bodies don’t perform exactly how you’d like them to for you

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Anonymous #1 13h

If you cared about health you’d be the first to champion against fatphobia. Considering how many ppl, fat and thin, it kills. But nooooo you want to control ppl’s bodies and make their humanity conditional upon whether you find them attractive or not

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Anonymous #3 13h

See how you don’t even understand why I brought that up… bc you haven’t ever opened a book 😭

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Anonymous OP 13h

No, it’s because they’re not relevant to each other.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Bc you don’t know your history, clearly

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Anonymous #3 13h

Like READ A BOOK. we don’t have time to baby you ignorant hateful fools

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Anonymous OP 13h

Dude I read plenty of books. Not knowing something has nothing to do with how many books I read. Saying “read a book” instead of actually arguing your position indicates that you have no idea what you’re talking about.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Keep reading then! You’ll get there someday And cuz I’m not gonna give you an invitation to be even more bigoted and racist. We’re not gonna baby you. Keep learning

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Anonymous #3 13h

I really just want to spare myself from the racism you’ll inevitably spew towards black women’s’ bodies if I have to spell out the link to slavery and racism. It’s easy to research my fella

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Anonymous #3 13h

It’s also like commons knowledge atp, do I have to spell out why slavery and colonialism is also bad like. Being hateful towards ppl’s bodies is never gonna be the woke take you think it is brother, it’s not hard to decipher if you’re not full of hate

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Anonymous OP 13h

Awesome so you don’t even have an argument. You just refuse to admit you’re wrong

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Anonymous OP 13h

And no, obesity is not caused by racism. Many people of all races are overweight.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Racism is BAD. Classism is BAD. Hating strangers for their bodies is BAD. Do you get it now? That’s my argument

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Anonymous #3 13h

*whoosh*

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Anonymous OP 13h

I want them to better themselves. Not wallow in self pity.

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Anonymous OP 13h

Cool I don’t do any of those things. What y’all describe as “fatphobia” includes a whole lot more than just hating people for their bodies. It includes any attempt to assign personal responsibility for poor decision making. That is not classist, nor is it racist. Expecting the rest of society to sacrifice for those who can’t take care of themselves is incredibly entitled.

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Anonymous #1 13h

Well being fatphobic like you are is not helping anyone better themselves. It leads to ppl starving and offing themselves. Leads to the development of EDs. Countless studies can tell you that

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Anonymous OP 13h

lol expecting people to not be overweight does not lead to eating disorders. Unrealistic expectations and body images do.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Your assumption by looking at someone’s body that they have poor decision making skills is exactly the ignorance and fatphobia (linked to racism, slavery, misogyny and classism) I’m referring to…. You really look at them as less than huh. It’s crazy. Thinking they want others to sacrifice for them is just weird fan fic you made up in your head

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Anonymous #3 13h

Brother you also need to read books about eating disorders too it seems. So proudly ignorant

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Anonymous OP 13h

lol you’re hilarious. Slavery isn’t what makes fat people fat. Their own poor choices do that. Yes, expecting the rest of society to cater to those choices is entitled. And no, expecting people to carry some degree of personal responsibility is not a bad thing. Society cannot function if people don’t take responsibility for their own choices.

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Anonymous OP 13h

omg once again, telling someone to just read books just indicates that you have no idea what you’re talking about but are unwilling to admit.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Lol if that’s the conclusion (about slavery) you made based off what I just wrote then we have a lot more work cut out for us than I thought. You can’t even bother to do a quick google search. Smh You’re just making up fanfic, no one is saying any of that tf

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Anonymous #3 13h

You realize this is yikyak right lmao. You want me to write a whole dissertation for you 😭 so lazy and anti intellectual. I’m giving you all the starting points. take responsibility for yourself and your choices!!

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Anonymous OP 13h

No, but I do expect a coherent argument, which you seem to be incapable of.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Idk how else to spell it out for you bruh

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Anonymous #3 13h

Fatphobia bad. GOOGLE IT

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Anonymous OP 13h

What y’all define as fatphobia isn’t bad.

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Anonymous #3 13h

And aversion to fat PEOPLE isn’t bad? An aversion to strangers that have nothing to do with you?? GO TO THERAPY

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Anonymous OP 13h

*an

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Anonymous #3 12h

This is what you’re defending? treating ppl differently bc of their body? You couldn’t even bother to google the definition like holy shit

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Anonymous OP 12h

lol y’all include a whole lot more than that in your definition

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Anonymous #3 12h

Where did I do that? Can you show me? My post was literally just calling out fatphobia, I didn’t say anything else… more fan fic

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Anonymous OP 12h

Being fatphobic means anything but glorifying them to you. Don’t pretend this is anything but that

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Anonymous OP 12h

If someone reeks of crack are you gonna be inadverse to them? No. I don’t want to be around people who make poor lifestyle choices.

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Anonymous #1 12h

No it literally means stop hating, judging and making the absolute worst assumptions about a human being based on their body type ya weirdos

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Anonymous #1 12h

You’ve done all three of those things. Fatphobe

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Anonymous OP 12h

You say that, and then you’ll turn around and say that any amount of personal responsibility is oppression

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Anonymous #1 12h

I’m not gonna judge or hate them for being an addict, for having a mental illness, no…. Is that what you do with addicts too?? Crazy

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Anonymous #1 12h

That’s called fatphobia friend. Look at the definition since you need help

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Anonymous OP 12h

So you just welcome them as they are hang out with them, if one asked you on a date you’d go, right?

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Anonymous OP 12h

No, we’re entitled to have preferences on the people we surround ourselves with. Nothing fatphobic about that

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Anonymous #3 12h

Huh? You should become a fictional writer. You’re imagination is crazy

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Anonymous #1 12h

Yeah ofc I’m gonna welcome anybody?? Yall are so weird and hateful 😭

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Anonymous OP 12h

Yeahhh gonna call bullshit on that one

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Anonymous #1 12h

Let me guess, you also have racial preferences huh. They’re just preferences tho!!

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Anonymous #1 12h

Sorry I’m not as hateful and judgmental as you. I’m aware of the research in that category too

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Anonymous OP 12h

No, that’s race. People can’t help the way they were born. Dumbass

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Anonymous OP 12h

You sure about that? You seem to be giving off a shitton of hate and judgment right now

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Anonymous #1 12h

It’s like you’re almost there. You’re almost getting it Yeah ofc I’m gonna hate on hateful ppl. Why wouldn’t you give shit to some of the most hateful ppl I’ve spoken with

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Anonymous OP 12h

No, you hate people who have a preference and those whole value their wellbeing and believe others should as well. Probably to project some deep rooted insecurity related to the topic

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Anonymous #1 12h

Yes I do hate ppl with bigoted preferences ofc. As I should. You clearly don’t value your own wellbeing nor do you do anyone else’s so look in the mirror and try therapy before you project outta your ass.

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Anonymous #1 11h

Normal ppl don’t obsess over strangers’ bodies and make up fan fic about their lives, it’s giving fan and you need intense help

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Anonymous OP 11h

Holy shit lmao really? Are you that self obsessed? “It’s giving fan” maybe you should get some help so you aren’t projecting your own self hatred onto others. It’s honestly disturbing

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Anonymous #1 11h

Yeah dude did you read all the fanfic you wrote about me?? When you don’t even know my body type lmao. And the fat ppl fan fic? Do you just see a fat person on the street and seethe with anger? Do you realize how incredibly sad that is? Happy and healthy ppl don’t even think about anyone else’s body. Cope with whatever weird trauma you have in a healthy way pls

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Anonymous #1 11h

I’ve gotten therapy and treatment for my ED. Try it some time

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Anonymous OP 11h

I literally just said your probably fat, is that a whole fan fic or are you projecting that into me as well. See now you’re the one writing fan fics, just like with the racism and classism bs. I’ve made it pretty clear how I felt several times but I’m thinking you aren’t actually reading you’re just responding out of rage. You’re pathetic honestly, and not everyone subscribe to your worldview of everyone is perfect and beautiful and if they disagree with you they’re satan incarnate.

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Anonymous OP 11h

Try reading again, you made multiple replies imagining my body and lifestyle. Weird behavior. You know maybe you have a fat fetish you pervert. Imagining every internet stranger’s body that disagrees with you Ofc you think racism and classism is bs, you’re an anti intellectual bigot with unresolved trauma but you refuse to get help

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Anonymous #1 11h

That reply was meant for you obv

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Anonymous #1 11h

Don’t worry you wrote in explicit detail how you think fat ppl are lazy pieces of shit that just eat their emotions. No one has to guess how you really feel lmao And you know what’s most pathetic? You can only say this shit online and don’t have the balls to be fatphobic publicly

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Anonymous OP 11h

No… i literally just called you fat, everything else was me just throwing things back you said about me first. OMG FANGIRLING OVER ME?! Not my first fanfic but probably the least accurate. I was never much into whaling. I’m not the one losing their shit cause someone else doesn’t care for how others live their lives

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Anonymous #1 11h

I was never picturing your body or “lifestyle” in explicit detail pervert. Unlike you, idgaf what your body looks like. It’s irrelevant Yeah I know you’re talking about yourself and your own personal moral failings you’re projecting

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Anonymous #1 11h

Being fat is not an action pervert. It’s literally just a body type. It’s like so close but so far

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Anonymous OP 11h

I never said anything general about fat people and eating. That one was specifically for you telling you to stuff your face… Umm.. according to your definition I definitely do, not like they can catch me if I run anyways. And you don’t have the balls to prove me wrong that you’re a fat fuck

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Anonymous #1 11h

Yeah you literally told me all that only bc you think I’m fat, hello??? How tf would I prove anything to you, you’re literally asking for pics now? Gross

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Anonymous OP 11h

You’re really digging into the whole pervert thing so let me assure you, you could be a 10 on looks and I wouldn’t even think about it given your repulsive personality. So drop it, it’s really giving fangirl. If my personal moral failing is thinking fat people waste their potential then sure I guess? Is that supposed to be a bad thing?

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Anonymous OP 11h

Actually fat can be used as a verb, I figured someone with your claimed intellectual prowess would know that but once again you leave me disappointed.

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Anonymous OP 11h

Uh yeah… but it wasn’t a general statement. I made that one specifically for you. OMG I guess I am fangirling a little! Dog my phone doesn’t have enough storage for the space you’d take up

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Anonymous #1 11h

For real now, legit question. Do you plan on having children?

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Anonymous OP 11h

Also is this some weird degradation kink for you? Cause it’s kinda fucked to force your fetishes onto non consenting individuals

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Anonymous #1 11h

Say what now

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Anonymous OP 11h

Not really, maybe with the right person but I’ll nip this before you get there. It’s perfectly normal for a woman to gain weight during pregnancy and retain it afterwards. It’s definitely not cause they’re lazy cause making another human is not easy. So no I’m not gonna be upset or loss attraction to my future wife if she gains some weight from having a child

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Anonymous OP 11h

What?

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Anonymous #1 11h

Just please please PLEASE undergo lots of therapy and research before you ever have kids. Pls I’m begging you, you’re gonna give them EDs if you don’t get help for yourself first. Good luck friend. I hope you do better in life

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Anonymous OP 10h

No… I don’t think I will. My kids won’t have eating disorders because they’ll be raised with health eating habits and physical activity. Teaching someone their health is important doesn’t give eating disorders.

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