
having basic context of how white ppl weaponize their marginalized identities above racial ones would make this read less like a nazi manifesto (in your opinion). i know you mean well by pointing out phrasing but it seems ppl are getting the message. as long as they have good comprehension skills i don’t think phrasing is too much of a problem.
I think it is unfair to blame white people for individually having that privilege. It’s not like they chose to be born that way. When people use it to consolidate power and marginalize others then yeah it’s absolutely worth pointing out and criticizing. That said, if someone is actively using their position to speak out in favor of others, then criticizing them for having it just seems like looking for reasons to hate on a person who doesn’t look the same as you.
It’s not about white people being innately bad, it’s about white people just being clueless when they need to listen. Like ultimately there are things I haven’t experienced and don’t understand and therefore I should let people with knowledge of those things be the people to speak out about them.
It’s the same way you let people with disabilities talk about the accommodations they need and their struggles instead of being a patronizing asshole Except people just get mad when you say you should let black and brown people talk about their lives themselves therefore proving the point of this post LMAOO
I’m on y’all’s side with this I understand and have the same position. Literally all I’m saying is that there’s people out there who use white privilege to discredit people who are doing things as best they can and to the best of their abilities/knowledge. Whenever people are genuinely clueless like I said yeah then it’s fair. But yall are a perfect example of jumping on me about this when I have literally written essays about how white privilege has impacted my own life.
You’re centering yourself when it’s probably not about you. If someone is like “ugh those annoying white people,” if you’re not an annoying white person you should feel totally fine. I’m not saying you should be happy every time someone tells you you’re wrong, but that you should just be ready to *be wrong* or *not be the center of attention.* it’s not about you!
and also in regards to your previous comment, I don't hate "brown and black people". I don't hate anyone. I don't hate white people enough to tear them down for their ancestors actions (however misguided) just like I don't hate non-white individuals into being stigmatized. I look at everyone without regard to color because I'm not going to live my life guilty for stuff I've never done just like how I'm not gonna judge someone else for stuff they've never done
sure we are! let’s not forget america is still stolen land, no matter how long ago it was stolen. we’re just in the late stages of a successful settler colonial project. also, israel is a more recent example of settler colonialism, and our own tax dollars are paying for that colony. billions and billions of $$ towards maintaining an illegal occupation of land.
It's not illegal occupation (the area belonged to Jewish people's prior to the existence of any modern nation state), and maybe you should stop diverting. Also, who the hell cares that "America is still stolen land". Girlie by that logic the entire world is stolen land because nomads had claims to land long before any nation or people group did
why shouldn’t you feel guilty? what your ancestors did was monstrous and cruel. you should be upset about it, so upset that you should be willing to put in the work and effort to make things right for the people who suffer and continue to suffer as a consequence of centuries of oppression. “i don’t see color” isn’t helping anybody but yourself.
well speaking as a person of color, i think we’re more than qualified to achieve better social conditions, but the “on their own” and “treat themselves w respect” parts are concerning. a functioning society doesn’t work like that. poc don’t achieve better social conditions “on their own” if white ppl who live alongside them refuse to acknowledge that poc deserve those conditions and work towards allowing those conditions to exist. also, what makes you think we don’t treat ourselves with respect?
why do you think there are so many laws in this country explicitly protecting the rights of non-white people? do you think those laws were written so that poc could “respect themselves more”? surely all people in this country have always had all equal rights all the time, and the poc must have never known they had those rights! how nice of white people to make those laws for them so that they can boost their self-esteem!
I think its totally fair, but I don’t think whiteness is anywhere near the most impactful privilege if we are talking about the US in 2025. It depends on the time and country, it would definitely be the biggest in South Africa in the 1960s for example. In the US in 2025 though, I just don’t see it ranking above disability, gender, or economic status. Queeness is more understandable because its less immediately obvious in most situations.
If I had to rank the privileges, able-bodiedness and wealth would rank way further above being white. Someone who is a black American but has some moderate amount of money and is healthy will have a way easier time existing than a white American who is in poverty and has a chronic condition. Idk how you can argue otherwise honestly.
like what does trying to rank it accomplish. don’t sit around being like “um ackshually i’m more oppressed than black ppl” like dude i’m a disabled transsexual and i’m still not gonna act like i have it off worse than most people, because i’m fairly well off. all of this shit INTERSECTS. that’s why it’s called intersectionality. this is base level shit. look into DeGraffenreid v General Motors. this is not a novel concept
i’m glad you brought degraffenfield up so i can elaborate. crenshaw’s framework was developed within the conditions produced by white supremacy, and it emerged to expose how black women’s experiences were marginalized within both feminist and antiracist frameworks. so, to suggest that all oppressions operate on an equal playing field overlooks the historical reality that racial hierarchy has been a structuring force within modern social, political, and economic orders.
in other words, intersectionality isn’t about ranking oppression but about recognizing that these systems interact within an uneven terrain of power. white supremacy has often functioned throughout history as the foundational logic shaping other forms of domination and oppression. it simply is the most dominant form of oppression in this period of modern history, and to say otherwise is disingenuous.
Why are you assuming that every white persons ancestors had a hand in slavery? Not everyone had connections to America at that time. You are pointing fingers at people who a. Never owned slaves themselves and b. could have ancestral ties to other countries. That’s why you can’t run around asking people if they feel guilt when you don’t know anything about where they came from.
irregardless if you can or can’t pinpoint down exactly how much your ancestors were involved in large scale human rights violations, you still benefit from their actions today as a white person, and that is an undeniable fact. the legacy and history of white supremacy has been bestowed onto to your generation. i shouldn’t have to remind you, WHITE PPL AREN’T NATIVE HERE TO AMERICA. THIS COUNTRY WAS BUILT ON MASSACRING AND TORTURING NON-WHITE PPL. you can’t erase that history.
The victim mentality, guilt tripping, and finger pointing tactics surprisingly don’t make most people want to listen to what you have to say. If you want to hold grudges against people who aren’t even alive anymore and make that your entire personality, go for it. It’s ironic how villainizing and stereotyping is ok in one direction but not the other.
great use of those brain cells. yes, i’m aware im living on stolen land as a non-native poc. many non-native poc were forced even against their will to live here as a result of their ancestors being enslaved. i’m also aware of the responsibility i have to advocate for their rights and existence on this land. unfortunately for you, that doesn’t mean i’m white, and i don’t benefit from a history of exploitation the same way you do.
I just don’t feel as though I live a disproportionately privileged life. I certainly don’t feel like I’ve been able to use my race as a leg up or a way to get what I’ve wanted. I’m not gonna sit on here and list all my issues and tell my life story to strangers. But at the same time I’m sick of people making judgements or statements like this original post and then trying to pass it off as not being invalidating.
maybe it’s time to investigate why you feel that way and start to accept the experiences of people who don’t look like you, even if you don’t like to hear it. the biggest fish in the current day and age is ignorance and the refusal to engage with ideas that make you feel uncomfortable. how can you expect things to change if you’re not even willing to hear out anyone who needs the change?
i’m aware it’s a scale and im aware it’s not “black and white” (figuratively and literally) as you’re trying to suggest, it’s still important to acknowledge the significance and impact of each marginalized identity in a historical, political, and economic context. we’re on the same page here but you seem to have issue with how im phrasing this. how different marginalized identities interplay can deeply affect individual and collective experiences of oppression.