“I see your point about improving safety nets, but I’m not saying we should treat immigrants badly. My argument is that it feels unfair for people who work hard to come here legally, like my grandma, to see others skip the line and get benefits. It’s not about wanting things to stay ‘shitty,’ but about making sure the system is fair and rewards people who follow the rules.
You’re right, the government sets the rules. But that’s the point: if the system is so strict for some people but is easy to bypass for others, it ends up being unfair and creates resentment. We should be pushing for reforms that make legal immigration easier and more fair for everyone, not ignoring the people who played by the rules.
Exactly, the system isn’t fair, it punishes people who try to come legally and creates resentment when others skip the line. That’s why we need real reform: to make legal immigration faster, fairer, and more humane so people like my grandma, your mom, and new immigrants aren’t stuck in an impossible system.
thats idealist thinking. obviously thats the solution, but its never going to happen. if getting in the country legally could be so easy then people wouldn’t come here illegally and i personally dont think they should be sent to foreign detention camps for something that’s obviously the governments fault. you picking up what im putting down?
Yeah, I get what you’re saying. I agree that it’s not fair to punish people harshly when the system itself is so messed up. I guess my main point is just that we can’t completely ignore the frustration from people who did it the ‘right way’, like my grandma. At the same time, you’re right: the bigger issue is the system itself and how broken it is.
that frustration is misguided is my point. my mom felt the same way but at the end of the day that’s just one victim of a shit system blaming another. that lets the actual perpetrators pin them against each other so no real change can ever happen. this concept applies to more than just immigration btw