Anonymous #1 3w

I didn’t say you had to gently parent your kid I said if you hit them you’re a pussy.

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Anonymous #2 3w

No, spanking is for pussies too.

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Anonymous #2 3w

There’s like zero actual evidence it does anything, it exists only for the parent to take out their frustration on their kid. Thats pussy bullshit for losers.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

I’m fine with being called that lol

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Anonymous #1 3w

I hope you’re also fine with the alleyway view at the cheapo nursing home.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

My dad hit me and all my bothers growing up, we love him

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Anonymous #1 3w

You’re not your dad.

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Anonymous #1 3w

And your kids aren’t you.

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Anonymous #1 3w

So enjoy the home champ.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

And my grandfather? Great grandfather? All of them hit their kids at some point and they still loved them

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Anonymous #1 3w

Oh I’m sure.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Won’t be any different for me

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Anonymous #1 3w

“My dad hit me and I turned out great” Classic. You know where I hear a lot of that? The cheap shitty nursing home I used to help out at.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Oh I’m sure it won’t.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Whomp whomp, kid is gonna get the belt when he doesn’t stop misbehaving

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Anonymous #1 3w

Right. And you’ll spend your golden years watching your teeth rot out of your face, sucking down applesauce, and getting molested by the guy assigned to wipe your ass for a month until they find out. I’ve seen it all before my man.

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Anonymous #1 3w

If that trade off is worth it for you, be my guess. Hit them kids. Hope it feels good.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

*guest

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

They’ll thank me for it, everytime I got hit I knew I deserved it

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Anonymous #1 3w

I’ve heard a lot of this in the home too.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Just pulling out the cliches?

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Did your dad hit you homie?

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Anonymous #1 3w

No

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Then what makes you the expert?

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Anonymous #1 3w

Not being a dumbass like you.

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Anonymous #1 3w

And, yk. Watching all those old bitter people die alone while talking about how they “don’t regret” hitting their kids every day.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

People who leave their parents in a nursing home don’t do it because they’re dad spanked them for stealing a chocolate bar when they were 10

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Well yeah! If you abuse your kids of course they won’t like you, but there’s a difference between abuse and discipline

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Anonymous #1 3w

Thing is, they said the same thing. I’m not convinced anyone is very sure of that line. Least of all someone arguing in favor of hitting their kids on yik yak.

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Anonymous #1 3w

No, they don’t. But someone who is desperate to defend their right to hit their child isn’t the kind of person who’s very sparingly hitting their kids.

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Anonymous #1 3w

And on top of that? It’s just proven to not be very effective.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

What’s most effective depends on the kid, some kids don’t respond to being grounded or losing their phone

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Anonymous #1 3w

Right but there is actual real life evidence that spanking is just an objectively ineffective punishment.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Just broadly.

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Anonymous #1 3w

And you have to sit here and pretend that isn’t true, because it’s not about making sure your kids grow up right. It’s about “well my daddy did it to me, and his to him, so now it’s my turn” It’s literally the FIRST thing yall say in your defense

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Broad definitions just mean as a rule, there are always exceptions to a rule

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yurp. And I’m sure despite the statistical outlier it would represent, all your kids will conveniently be the type of child it works on. Even tho it won’t work on them and they’ll continue to do bad shit and just won’t tell you lmao.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

You sure your dad didn’t hit you lol

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Anonymous #1 3w

You a little bitch if you gotta hit your kid, wait till they’re grown and see if you can get a punch in. Who gives a fuck what your dad and grandpa did their little bitches too and you should have fought them back

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yes.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Neither of my parents hit me.

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Anonymous #3 3w

Have you worked with kids?

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Well you sound like you’re projecting

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Anonymous #1 3w

I’m guessing you haven’t if you hit them, your probably not aloud within 50ft of them

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Anonymous #1 3w

I’m just describing the statistically supported reality dude

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Anonymous #1 3w

Also, for the record, I have also worked with children. So I’ve literally seen all sides of this.

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Anonymous #3 3w

There are a couple that need to be smacked, the way they talk back to any and everyone, they’re gonna get pulled over for speeding and end up in jail, or worse, they’re gonna talk to someone else like that when they’re older and get hit by someone that doesn’t actually care about them

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Anonymous #1 3w

And conveniently that couple of kids will just happen to be any of the kids you have

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Anonymous #1 3w

Heard all this shit before you’re not slick

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Only one of my siblings was like that and he absolutely deserved everything he got

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Anonymous #1 3w

That is some absolute pussy shit your a fucking pussy, your kids gonna get taken from you and you’ll sit here wondering jack shit, you don’t hit kids you fuckhead

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Anonymous #3 3w

Yeah you do

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Anonymous #1 3w

No you don’t

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Anonymous #1 3w

If you’re supposed to hit kids why do you get arrested for it?

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Anonymous #3 3w

You’re not supposed to abuse kids, cuffing them over the head for stealing or cursing at strangers isn’t abuse

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Anonymous #1 3w

Hitting them is abuse you fucktard

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Anonymous #3 3w

Grow a pair little bitch, you’re gonna be useless fathers when you sit there like a whimp while your son talks back to your wife or hits your daughter

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Every single thing you say reeks of gross insecurity. You think you have to beat your children to stop them from walking all over you? Are you a stupid animal? Do you have monkey brain? You can only communicate though violence? Ya stupid and a shit parent.

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You’re a shitty parent if you let them walk all over you, you’re a pussy if you hit your kids, you’re a little bitch for even supporting that shit, you’re a bad parent and I hope child services come and bring your kids to a better home where they don’t have to be scared their if their dad will hit them or not

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Anonymous #3 3w

Just say you want to be fathers everyone including your wife ignores

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Anonymous #1 3w

Say you’re a little bitch, little bitch. Your sentence doesn’t even make sense

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Anonymous #1 3w

Again. Insecurity. “If you don’t hit your kid your wife will ignore you” Youre a weak and insecure loser. This shit doesn’t work on us because we aren’t that.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Your wife is gonna be like, “wait till your father gets home!” Only for the father to not doing anything lol

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Anonymous #1 3w

Again, you think if you don’t hit your kid your wife will ignore you. That’s pathetic and hilarious. You’re not squirming out of that

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

And when you’re in a nursing home because both of your sons are in jail maybe you’ll think, “geez, at least I didn’t hit them growing up!”

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Anonymous #1 3w

Fuck you even talking about 3, go ahead put down the app for today

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Anonymous #3 3w

*1

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Anonymous #1 3w

My parents didn’t hit me and I have a squeaky clean criminal record, same with all my siblings. And I have many. Pokes some holes in that little theory.

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Anonymous #3 3w

Bro is talking to himself, you absolutely should put down the phone dude, I agree

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

My family turned out just fine as well, so who’s right?

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Anonymous #1 3w

I ain’t stressing about mixing up the numbers, made the correction for a reason dipshit. What I’m worried ab is the pussy who thinks it’s ok to beat their kids because they don’t listen to them, you need some intervention in your life, and if you truly have kids and aren’t just making shit up then you need to get charged for this shit, you’re a bad person

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Anonymous #3 3w

If you took the kids from every parent that smacked their kid for doing something wrong, we’d run out of parents

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Anonymous #1 3w

No we’d have full jails, and we already got that, so let’s try and be human here and not hit your kids jackass

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Anonymous #1 3w

And I’m not stressed, I’ll raise my kids however I think is best for them, not strangers who will never know them

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Anonymous #1 3w

I feel for your kids then, they gotta live in fear of their own parent, there’s a nice burning place in hell for you

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Anonymous #3 3w

They’ll tell stories about it when they come over for Christmas just like my siblings and I do and im absolutely certain my dad isn’t going to hell for doing the same thing

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Anonymous #1 3w

If he hits his kids then yes he probably will, just like you for hitting your kids

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Anonymous #1 3w

“My family turned out just as well, so who’s right” The one that didn’t need to hurt people to do it. Easy.

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Anonymous #3 3w

Hmmmmm, no

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Anonymous #1 3w

Hmmmm, yes.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

Mushy do you belive in hell?

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Anonymous #1 3w

I ain’t even gonna talk to this peice of shit anymore, I hope child services come save your children from you and put them in a better home, they don’t need to go through this shit and your a sorry piece of shit 1, you know where things are going if you continue this behavior and that’s on you, peace ✌️

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Anonymous #3 3w

Yessir I do, sorry for getting your panties in a twist little bitch. Peace✌🏽

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Anonymous #1 3w

No not really. I just think it’s a fundamentally weak and immoral thing to do.

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Anonymous #1 3w

You want to inflict pain unto your children, GTFO of here with that shit.

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Anonymous mushy.the.mushroom 3w

I agree, if you hit your kid you’re doing something else wrong and it means your kid doesn’t respect your word

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Anonymous #5 3w

Valid.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Hitting your kids. I carve out very specific and extremely rare exceptions but in essentially any case.

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Anonymous #2 2w

Physical discipline is a sham. My friend makes her toddler wear a bright yellow baseball cap as his “discipline,” it’s him and only him who knows that he’s in trouble - he just wears the hat and he gets the point. Anything that makes the kid sit and think about what they did is 1000000% more effective than any physical discipline. Hitting your kids is for pussies.

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