
Oh they bring us up irl often enough but in general this goes back to the 1800s i believe? When asian immigrants were associated with disease and seen as a threat to labor. Those attitudes carried over very easily and even as immigration continued, and Indians married black people and Mexicans, the process of civic ostracism still served to “other” asian immigrants. Also, for indians specifically, the geopolitics of smell goes a long way in perpetuating racism.
I think the issue is the same across all immigrants to them. It’s that some immigrants bring some customs to the US that are either not understood or generally unacceptable. Even in the 1800s there was pushback against white Catholic immigrants for allegiance to the Pope. There was fear of Italians and the mob. Fear of Muslims simply because Sharia Law exists and fear of Indians simply because the Caste system exists is nothing we haven’t seen with other groups. They’ll adjust
I went to a high school with a large Indian population, and a relationship between an Indian girl and a white dude was gonna piss her parents off, a relationship between an Indian girl and a Black dude was simply not happening. I never saw it. Not once, in my school of 4,000 students.
No the parents want their kids to date up *within* the Indian caste hierarchy especially when it’s a large Indian community in the area, and any other race/religion than an Indian Hindu simply does not believe in that caste system shit so we’re all casteless as far as marrying up goes, according to the religiously conservative members of the older generation and usually first generation in America, their parents. The kids all thought it was fuckin stupid.
And lots of religious groups that exist in large clusters do this, like we’re all familiar with the stereotype of the New York Jewish Mom who’s always asking her son who dates gentiles why he can’t just find a nice Jewish girl, that shit exists for a reason, I’ve seen my aunts do it to my cousins lmao