
Like humans are not entirely monogamous pair bonding creatures. As animals we have aspects that like many mammals make us have a propensity towards polyamory and competition for mating (think lions, wolves, many kinds of apes). Humans like many animals are not totally in either camp but it is quite apparent that this polyamorous style of behavior has happened and is happening (something like 30-50% of people have self reported that theyâve been unfaithful to a partner in studies across Europe)
What Iâm saying is as an animal we have aspects of ourselves that are polyamorous and competitive when it comes to sex as we see from the polyamorous behaviors and how human women and human men look quite different. This competitive nature is consist with mammalian and evolutionary biology to say we would expect the human as an animal to have competitive reproduction behaviors like lions and gorillas because we share the sexual differentiation and polyamorous behaviors that they do which
Which evolutionary implies we are a competition species (at least to some degree) when it comes to reproduction. This is hardline biology. The issue with competition is there are winners and there are losers. If you believe that the dating culture is failing you maybe think about yourself and how you fit into it and really ask âwait is this just a skill issueâ because Iâm afraid you might have some realizations
Does everyone hate it and is everyone miserable? WTF even is a beta or alpha male? Like it seems like you intuitively use language associated with hierarchy and thus competition but donât comprehend that competition comes with winners and losers and thereâs this entire possibility that youâre just one of the losers in this competition. Like your own internal logic is flawed and fucking upside down man.