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Pronouns are fine. If you want she he or them that’s cool I don’t care. But when you start demanding “xem” or “this one” please fuck off.
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Anonymous 4w

It’s such a small minority, who cares? I’ve honestly never encountered someone irl who demands (let alone uses) Neo pronouns

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Anonymous 4w

Why is it rational to attribute the behavior of 1 person to an entire group?

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Anonymous 4w

And how many people have you met that go by these pronouns?

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Anonymous 4w

I don’t see why people don’t just say the thing if they want to be respectful honestly

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Anonymous 4w

Can we just love each other? 🫩

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Anonymous 4w

OP’s real for this neo-pronouns are absolute bullshit. I can tell yall have not had to deal with this behavior on the regular

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Anonymous 4w

I havent met a single person that uses anything other than he/him, she/her, they/them, or it

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Anonymous 4w

Just here to say OP is right and that using xe/xer on vc along with not saying “you” does in fact take effort

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

We had one on our discord for years, they left without saying anything suddenly, and to my understanding it’s bc we weren’t using their preferred pronouns

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And you’re surprised why they left? Be fr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And I’m sorry but, making us all have to use unique words and phrases you invented just for us to refer to yourself isn’t affirming, it’s obnoxious. We are already super respectful of your gender identity as it is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You’re not respectful of their gender identity if you don’t refer to them by the pronouns they want to be referred to by.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

They said they were cool with they. Like no none of us are gonna start saying “this one” every single time we need to say “you”, that shit is absurd. Like see ya I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m gonna be honest dude, why not just respect it lol, like literally who cares. It takes zero effort to type an x instead of an h whether you understand it or not, I don’t know why there’s a need to make a fuss over it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

This wasn’t in typing, this was for voice chat. That a whole other thing no one would care about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

How difficult is it to modify one person’s pronouns in one singular context?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

What’s absurd is you making a mountain out of a molehill.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It’s not one singular context, they didn’t even like being addressed as “you”. Literally no one was having any of that shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m gonna go even further and see even then, who cares? Just say “this one,” it requires zero effort. I think going out of your way to actively not do so just because you personally find it silly is kind of an asshole move. Like, I can’t stop you from behaving that way, but I think it’s far more silly to raise a fuss about it than just tolerate it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah so you weren’t respecting them. Like how do you not understand

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The singular context is on discord, like this isn’t even your best friend who you talk to one on one in person, over text, call, etc. daily. I don’t think it’s that complicated.

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Anonymous 4w

No you haven’t. Stop lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’m gonna be real, I don’t rly care. If you need to continue to make up ever-increasingly complex grammatical bullshit by the year to feel special, then maybe this is a you issue, not a me issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It is 100% a you issue making this much of a fuss over basic respect dude lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Like I said, we always respected it, til she added more and more. Like speaking fucking Morse code

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh it’s definitely a you issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I don’t think swapping a single word is all that complex my guy. I fear this may be actually be a you problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Give me a fucking break dude lol, saying “this one” or “xe” is not comparable to learning fucking Morse code. Now you’re just being ridiculous.

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Anonymous 4w

in real life? face to face?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

As someone who hangs out with trans ppl online too, and irl, you’re valid OP. That stuff does get obnoxious, and it’s frankly rude.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Now who’s the one being absurd? Comparing simple words to morse code lmao fuck off

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

“As someone who hangs out with trans people” oh BROTHER lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’ve had to deal with this, where some ppl need to basically have a constructed language set aside for them, and no one likes it. No one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Give me a fucking break. What’s rude is you not respecting it. Get the fuck out of here

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

It’s not a “constructed language” it is literally a small handful of words and terms based upon English, they’re not asking you to learn fucking Klingon. Good lord you people are drama queens lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’ll respect anything you want within reason. Fictional grammatical structures do nothing but piss everyone off, like be real. It’s vastly inconsiderate

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

They’re not asking you to learn fucking Swahili you dumbass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I think the simple solution to all of this is to simply not hang out with these people. If you don’t like them, which you both clearly don’t if basic respect for them is such a massive issue, then just don’t interact? Again, SUCH a tiny minority of people even use Neo pronouns, and even less are demanding about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

It’s not inconsiderate in the least because, again, it takes zero effort to respect lol. Like, literally none. It does take effort to go out of your way to whine about a non issue, though.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

“It’s vastly inconsiderate” The fucking irony lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Out of my disc of about 11 vc regulars, we honestly just all agreed that they’re a cunt. And I’m not allowed to say there’s trans regulars on there bc you’re gonna just say I’m doing the “I have black friends thing”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Idgaf if you have trans friends or not mate, you’re still being a whiny prick over a non issue lol, and that goes for your disc of 11 vc regulars too. You people treat the most minor shit about pronouns like a war against basic decency, it’s just silly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The white-knighting in here is crazy. It’s almost as if trans ppl are ppl, and they can have flaws and behavioral problems just like anyone else. Not allowed to say that I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

They can, absolutely! But asking someone to refer to you as a neo pronoun is not a behavioral problem lol. Frankly, based on how you and OP are acting about it, I’m not surprised these kind of people leave y’all, I wouldn’t wanna hang out with you either

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Are you actually brain dead? No one is saying trans people are free from all responsibility, but you don’t get to say someone is a bad person just because they would like people to respect their pronouns, even if they seem silly or out there. It also doesn’t mean you can just disrespect someone’s identity because they’re an asshole.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Seriously, the fucking stink these people raise over this stuff as if they’ve been slighted over it somehow is pathetic. Hust socially inept behavior at that poiny

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I don’t think you or any other human being on the planet deals with this kind of thing on the regular, and even if this was something you deal with regularly, it’s a non issue dude. As a cis dude myself it doesn’t bother me in the least to respect people’s pronouns even if I find it silly because, y’know, I think that’s just what adults with a basic sense of social awareness do,

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Pronouns are one thing, what OP’s talking about is when ppl change it up on you and then get uppity when you don’t know about it. Like no I’m not checking your profile every day for the newest update, get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

EXACTLY

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Bingo. Cunt behavior, don’t let the door hit you on the way out babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I’d be willing to bet all the money in my wallet that the “uppity” in question was a person politely correcting someone and just asking to be called one of those neo pronouns and then it was perceived as a slight. This whole thread reeks of drama queening like that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

First, where did OP say that? They’ve been talking about one person using one pronoun this whole time, and have been criticizing unconventional pronouns, but not that. second, how often do you actually encounter people like that? And third, who tf cares if they want to do that? Just don’t interact. No one is forcing you to do so.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

You don’t deal with it on the regular. Stop the bullshit

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Anonymous 4w

No you haven’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

Adults with a basic sense of social awareness should not be malding bc not all of their queer friends can keep up with their preferred language. It’s like being offended that some of us didn’t predict what they’re ordering for lunch today. And when you have one or two who act like this, it’s fucking infuriating

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

And I’m glad for OP that the problem child left, bc I would’ve done the kicking myself.

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

to be fair, i had a friend irl that would change their pronouns and preferred name literally every day and they’d get mad if you didn’t know they changed it. idk if that’s what op is talking about, but there are people like that. idk respect their new pronouns but it would change so often i would have zero clue what’s going on

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

i’d* not idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Again, OP didn’t say a think about this person malding over it, that’s just what you’ve said lol, all of this comes off like someone requesting a simple thing and OP getting triggered over it for no good reason. Truly, it is a non issue that y’all have blown up into nothing, and I don’t think you people realize how much you come off like the whiny “cunts” here over something this trivial z

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Because once we do and it starts being normal, they change it. Bc then it’s not special anymore. Its attention-seeking behavior disguised as affirmation and it’s honestly gross

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

from what op has said, it sounds like this person has changed the rules a lot. idk if i’m wrong but i don’t think it’s necessarily fair to change the rules then get upset people didn’t know you changed the rules

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

No trust me they give us the passive-aggression for it and then just outright aggression. It’s a putrid attitude

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh my god dude lmao is that seriously how you view people asking to respect a changed pronoun? This is really this much of a fuss for you? Y’all are silly as shit lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then why not just change it as they want it changed?

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

how do you respect a changed pronoun if you don’t know the pronoun changed at all 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Bc this person has borderline-personality disorder disguised as being trans, and none of us are playing this game anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Alright well why are you basing all people who use neo pronouns off of one?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

that’s a little too much bud

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

You don’t, but based on everything OP has said I’m hedging my bets on this being a “person asks politely, other person refuses to respect it, person gets peeved and leaves” situation. The whole thing just reeks like someone looking to victimize themselves over a non issue, and it’s frankly pathetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

from what op said, this person said they were fine with they pronouns but then got mad when people in the server used they pronouns

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

See, right fucking there, calling it a “game” and equating it to a personality disorder. Just blowing the whole thing into this absurd level of severity. You’ve lost me entirely man, I’m not shocked this person didn’t wanna have to put up with that kind of perspective lol

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

No, you don’t know this bitch. They’re literally fucking insane. And they use this thing to demand attention for themselves. They’re truly an awful person, and I’m glad they left without us having to do an officer powwow to define what to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i had a friend like that but i’d never speak on their mental illness dude, that’s taking it a little too far. i know it can be annoying but lets be kind to others

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why are you applying that persons behavior to all people who use neo pronouns?

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

Nah some ppl can be delulu and they try to pass it off as stuff like that it’s really sad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m sorry dude but you are not convincing me whatsoever lol, based on everything you’ve said this just sounds like a case of over sensitivity and an attempt to victimize yourself over a concept you don’t understand and therefore won’t tolerate. You sound like an ass and I’m frankly not surprised they wanted to leave, I wouldn’t wanna be in that group either lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

using neo pronouns isn’t “delusional”, it’s delusional to justify disrespecting pronouns just because you don’t understand them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

We’ve dealt with their shit for YEARS, we are only human, we’re not gonna tolerate this kind of behavior on our disc anymore when we have been polite and understanding, this was a long time coming, and nobody is upset that it did

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean, you compared using neo pronouns to learning Morse code dude. If you really expect me to not see this as you victimizing yourself after a take that dramatic and absurd, you’re barking up the wrong tree

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

i’ve met one person irl that uses neo pronouns but that’s it

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

Good tbh 😩 bc I’ve only had bad experiences

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Again, based on all this nonsense, I’d wager you’re the one making this all into a bad experience my guy lol

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

i think we all need to realize we need to stop generalizing and realize that life is not black and white, and that everyone can have different experiences. this goes for everyone here. op could be right, the person they dealt with could’ve been difficult, but that doesn’t mean anyone that uses neo pronouns is the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why. are you attributing this to ALL people who use them?

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

Dude this is not everyone else’s fault in this server, all of this drama is their fault. It’s one person. We didn’t all simultaneously lose our minds having to keep up with their bullshit just to victimize them

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

and riddler, you could also be right that op was the difficult one. that doesn’t mean everyone that uses neo pronouns is understanding about people needing time to adjust

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

I’m not saying everyone who uses neopronouns is a nice little angel made of sunshine and rainbows, anyone is capable of being a shitler, but based on the language OP has used to describe the situation they are coming off as the problem, a mega shitler if you will

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

shitler is going into my vocabulary, but yeah i agree op has taken things too far

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean, misery loves company lol, and seeing as how you’re being an asshat about this it wouldn’t surprise myself if your lil discord group consists of similar asshats, based on every way you’ve described this. You’re not winning me over here man lol

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

and if it wasn’t a problem with their pronouns, it’s a problem with something else. Oh we all watched the Sonic movie when she wasn’t on, just to include her on purpose, actually no, we literally posted the event with signups. Gaslighting self-victimizing bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Exclude*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

okay then if it’s a deeper issue and not just a neo pronouns issue, why are their neo pronouns a more pressing matter than the fact that they were an asshat.

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Anonymous 4w

You don’t have any

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

this is like lilly tino but on yikyak

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

LMFAO

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Again, this person could be an asshole, but lumping in the concept of neopronouns as a whole as some grand scapegoat for the assholelishness is absurd. You’re coming off as a wayyyy bigger prick than you realize bro, seriously

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

i’m serious everyone hates lilly tino because she’s annoying but they misgender her and hate on her pronouns instead of the fact that she’s annoying annoying shitler

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Nah the neo-pronoun thing goes hand in hand with this behavior, there’s a reason it’s rare

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

an annoying shitler but annoying being there twice is fitting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

How do you not realize you’re the asshole here? Like seriously

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

Still, I stand by my belief that you’re blowing this person’s behavior way out of proportion based on how you’ve blown the concept of respecting neopronouns in general. You seem like someone who tends to turn mountains into molehills and I’m not shocked a person wouldn’t wanna hang around that, much less a group supporting it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

i’ve personally met some great people that use neo pronouns, i’ve also met some asshats that use neo pronouns. generalizing people based on language is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

There you go again, throwing out the neo-pronoun baby with the bathwater. It must suck being this narrow minded and miserable lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

op, i’ve met someone very similar to what you’re describing and i understand, but it feels like rather than understanding their behavior isn’t related to their neopronouns, you want to grasp onto it as another way to hate on this person

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

I’m sorry but it’s true and OP’s valid. They are few and far between, but they tend to have serious fucking issues when you get to know them. The attention-seeking, that shit is real af

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

is it attention seeking to want to be respected? it’s one thing if they change their pronouns every day but if it’s a one time thing why is that attention seeking? that’s like having a nickname and people refusing to use it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

it’s not attention seeking it’s just a preference.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

You have no fucking idea if it’s true, frankly, and it’s obnoxious how you’re acting like you know the whole situation based on things an anonymous person has said lol. I have no idea if this neo pronoun person is an ass, based on what OP had said I doubt it, but all you’re doing is just adding more dramatizing bullshit to the pile. You people are so pathetic lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Well that wouldn’t be problematic at all, choosing pronouns and sticking to them for a reasonable amount of time, and not freaking out when ppl make a mistake.

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

idk why these people are acting like being an asshat is exclusive to neo pronouns.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

No seriously, it’s a classic “throwing the baby out with the bathwater” situation, just using a single person’s actions to define an entire concept and demographic. So small minded.

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

I would certainly hope everyone who uses these pronouns doesn’t act this way. Pick a set and stick to them for 5 minutes for God’s sake. Don’t pick ones just bc they’re complicated, you’re allowed to have the same pronouns as another human being. Like holy shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Frankly, it’s not up to you or me to decide what’s normal or standard when it comes to pronouns. If someone wants to switch them, let them, I don’t care because it is so easy to respect and follow. Truly, it is not that hard. Still, the fact that you’re making this whole thing about the pronouns and throwing that concept under the bus cements my assumption that all of this stems from you being uncomfortable with the concept and making yourself the victim in a situation that isn’t that serious.

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

This person was inventing words neither you nor me have ever heard before, stealthily replacing the old ones in their disc profile, saying nothing until someone inevitably gets it wrong, when they act like everyone is out to get them, and everyone has to go “omg I’m so sorry”, like wtf is this behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Bro shut the fuck up already. You’re so exhausting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Try dealing with months of this garbage fucking behavior bro.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You use the same logic that racists use against racial identities lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

If you’ve never dealt with this then sit the fuck down.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

All of you jumping on OP bc it’s fashionable to do so have no exposure to any of this behavior, bc you don’t have actual exposure to trans circles, the only one here who actually seems to are OP and #8.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

That’s untrue. We’re “jumping” on him because he’s wrong. And if you were an adult you’d know better than to assume others experiences with trans circles in an attempt to justify a false sense of superiority on this subject. Try again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

If you actually did you’d realize that not everyone who claims to be trans is sincere, you just jump to their defense from the instant you hear they might be. Ppl like OP is talking about are NOT sincere, they are frauds in need of attention and mental help.They do far more damage than anything OP has said or done.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

They attach themselves to trans communities like parasites in need of attention that will never ever be fulfilled

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Wouldn’t be surprised at all if they made it all up just for attention. Fake-ass person

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

i can see ops side in that though, the person i know that uses neo pronouns switches them almost every single day and at that point it’s a bit annoying and does feel performative

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

OP disparaged ALL people who use neopronouns. How is that okay?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s the same logic that racists use. That is textbook identity punishment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

and it is a little insane to change your pronouns and not tell anyone, then expect everyone to know you changed them and get upset when they don’t use the new pronouns

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Thank you like holy shit. We literally try our best to keep up and end up having to say sorry anyway, it’s not fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

you’re not out of the woods bud, you’re still not paying attention to the root issue you have and are instead trying to generalize communities

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

I don’t wanna do the “I have black friends” thing but we are literally the gayest fucking discord in existence, idk what community we’re generalizing except our own?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

people that use neo pronouns?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

To be honest I mean, no we’re really not fans of that. Maybe it’s how members of a religion look at other members of the same religion who are more extreme.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You use the same logic racists use; then you proceed to justify it by using another racist style argument.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

I mean I don’t rly know what to tell you, I don’t like Neo-Pronouns 🤷‍♂️ And I consider it a red flag for a person. That is my honest to god opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So the way someone identifies, as part of their gender or sexual identity is a red flag for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

It makes me suspect of their intentions and their sincerity, ESPECIALLY when it changes regularly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

It feels mocking, like a caricature

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So again, if someone used that same logic when talking about racial identities, would you find that okay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

No obviously that would not be ok, but this is apples and oranges.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

“I don’t want to do the I have black friends thing but-“ *does the thing*

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Anonymous replying to -> big_al_the_riddler 4w

I’m trying to impress upon you that my opinions are coming from a queer perspective not a chud one. I hate Neo-pronouns and this is not an uncommon opinion among this community from what I’ve seen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So when people are claiming identities, when is it okay to discriminate against them or hold specific beliefs on their identity once they’ve identified themselves? Is it just arbitrary to you? If you had a bad experience with trans people? Then trans identities?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

It’s not arbitrary to me at all, it’s the opposite, it’s their being arbitrary to the point of confusion. If your own identity was that important to you, you wouldn’t treat it this way, and that comes across as fake.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You said if someone uses those pronouns, you’re suspicious of their intentions. If someone were to do the same thing but replaced it with race, why would that upset you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

When I say this btw, I mean if someone were to do what YOU were doing. Neopronouns warrant suspicion of intentions.*

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

There’s a problem in the trans community, and that is people can say who and what they are, and not actually believe it, and it’s obvious to real trans ppl. And it’s not fair for the rest, who’ve gone thru surgery, who’ve gone thru severe depression and suicidal thoughts due to dysphoria before transitioning, to humor these ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s not really an answer. You’re the one who’s making these wide generalizations about all people who use neopronouns.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

If someone said the same thing with race as I said, no that’s not ok.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

But rotating thru a collection of words that didn’t exist before to describe yourself is not race.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why isn’t okay if someone treats racial identities, the way you’re treating gendered pronouns?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Bc race is an immutable aspect of yourself, not self-abuse of your gender identity to give some excuse for anti-social abuse against others.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Rotating thru Neo-pronouns like that isn’t affirmation, it’s narcissism and emotional manipulation. It’s very easy to see thru that kinda BS

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

🙏 😩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It’s actually not. I study sociology for a living. Race by definition is a construct. Gender identity is also. Both identities have the capacity to be inherent to your role as a person when you claim the titles but neither are necessarily biologically tied or “immutable” So again, why is it okay to suspect ALL people who claim that identity of being disingenuous?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

It’s actually not right to generalize entire groups off 1 person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Good thing he/she didn’t say a whole group and instead was referring to hypothetical future interactions. Stay strong tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

“Dealt with this” Bitch it’s not even an issue. You’re just being an asshole. There are bigger issues in the world. Grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

If race is a construct exactly like gender identity then does that mean behavior like inventing several races unique only to you and cycling thru them is acceptable behavior? I don’t see that happen. What point could there be to Neo-Pronouns except to use them in a manipulative and self-aggrandizing way? It’s pretentious behavior at best, abuse at worst.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

This behavior is overwhelmingly performative. There’s no gender-affirming merit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

How does it take effort? You’re lazy as fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Because it breaks down everything we learned about grammar growing up by introducing nonexistent vocabulary that has no logical derivation

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

He quite literally did. It’s in his postz

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

Yes. Now imagine if you have 2 different folks on voice chat with 2 different sets of rules, or even 3. In that case we will use “they”, if they don’t like it, they can find another disc that speak 3 dialects of pig Latin

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So your answer as to why it’s okay to suspect all people of that identity is a question? “what point could there be” What’s inherently abusive about a neo pronoun? And why is that any different than someone identifying as transgender?

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Anonymous 4w

Bc there are very few of “those weirdos”. I highly doubt you’ve met plenty of them. You’re just being an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

Yeah see it actually does exist. You’re just an ignorant piece of shit

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Anonymous 4w

It doesn’t surprise me that your only real argument is an insult against the mentally disabled

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Nice my comment got reported

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Anything can be made up and then exist. It doesn’t change that there’s no logical derivation

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

I assume it was the slow bit, it’s not hard to be a good person and not accuse others of being mentally disabled lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

There is a logical derivation but even if there wasn’t. IF, why is that grounds to suspect all people who hold the identity of being manipulative or abusive in nature

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Not answering questions of things that aren’t in the original post

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

It’s always a good sign when 1 question is too much for someone lol. Thanks for showing the instability of your entire position

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

For sure you’re so right! My position about the post is invalidated by not answering stuff not in the post!

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

You saying that, doesn’t actually make it true. The fact that 1 question offends you to the point of admitting you’re just going to avoid it, shows how weak the position is if slight pushback is too much lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Sorry looked back and didn’t see anyone offended.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

I did don’t worry. You might not recognize it on a conscious level; that wouldn’t surprise me if your capacity to understand that logic doesn’t exist yet in your head.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

You also might not recognize on a conscious level that you’re incorrect haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

The fact you keep avoiding my question proves otherwise lol. As long as you keep avoiding it; my point is proven.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Praying for your id

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

Praying you stop letting your feelings get in the way of adult conversations

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Getting very mature vibes from you my bad I guess I’m just not as mature as you 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

I’d say you aren’t if you’re not able to not get comments taken down lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

My bad twin I’ll try harder next time 🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

Good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

:)

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

:)

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