This is just a matter of opportunity, not a difference in disposition. At the end of the day those who attain immense wealth and power do so following tremendous moral compromise, man or woman. Although women are also often excluded from positions or power, when the acquire it it’s not so different
Many Russian tzarinas, but Cathrine the Great (coup, wars with Crimea, Ottoman Empire, and that whole Poland ordeal) Cathrine de Medici (St. Bartholomew’s day massacre, Religious Wars in France) Boudicca (revolt against Romans) Zenobia of Palmyra (conquered Roman Arabia) Maria Theresa has a large hand in starting Seven Years’ war
Can I remind you of MARGARET FUCKING THATCHER, who’s personal war monger if achievements have filled multiple books? But sure, beyond her, Hillary Clinton (Libya, 2011) Alice Auma (Uganda, 1986) Comandata Romana (Mexico, 1994) Indira Ghandi (India, 1971) Rosa Luxembourg (Germany, 1919)
Problems would never exist to the magnitude that they are now. Women are naturally non violent to other women. I literally have to carry a taser on me when I'm walking at night because of men? Not women. People have already admitted that men are more violent. It's literally a proven fact. If men didn't exist, our biggest threat would be gone. That doesn't mean we resort to killing eachother. Women are ahead of men literally since birth in so many ways. We understand not to use violence
You said “I love how it’s only men who have decided that the only way to achieve peace is to kill a bunch of people first”. Don’t go back on your words now that you’ve been proven wrong. This is why they say “winning an argument with a genius is hard but winning an argument with an idiot is impossible”. Don’t be the idiot
There’s some research that found that polities with female rulers participated in more wars than those with male ones (however this does include the caveat that unmarried queens were most likely to be invaded, but also married queens attacked others more often than married kings attacked) https://bfi.uchicago.edu/wp-content/uploads/BFI_WP_2019120.pdf