think about all the single women in the west. now think about all the spiders they have to deal with. we can and will if need be, we just really really don’t want to because we know it will be emotionally and psychologically taxing. kind of like the act of declaring war. only thing is killing a spider won’t condemn millions of people to death so your argument seems very out of place... plus, i doubt anyone in the white house is responsible for handling pest extermination
2/2. Not even a complete list. If you want to count colonialism which is abnormally unpopular, it would be far more expansive. Shes not a statistical outlier either. It can be explained with biochemistry, and not all war’s waged by female leaders have been unjust, but statistically, historically, women have been way more on board with war than male leaders.