This is why I love talking about politics with my conservative ex-college roommate, our personalities are deeply similar other than the fact that he grew up a rural conservative, and I grew up in a big city and am more liberal, so it’s easy to listen and understand each other and all that
Him and I are both deeply compassionate people who respect people different from ourselves, but I’ve grown up seeing lots of people different from me, and he hasn’t. He’s not bigoted in any way, he was just raised as a Republican, but he’s also like “Idk why they focus on the trans thing so much, it’s not that big a deal” which is what makes his conservatism palatable to me
Him and I recognize each other as good people who both have a good heart in our chests, albeit different views from different upbringings, it’s City Mouse/Country Mouse but we like each other and that makes the conversation so much more productive than any I’ve ever had on the internet.