I pray that she finds peace in this. Especially as she gets older and everything starts to sink in- i hope and pray that she will grow to respect herself more than he ever did. I hope she will find joy in the sunset, love in the sea, and community on a planet of people who already hold her grief in their hearts. 💕
I don’t think so. I don’t think that’s relevant or honestly even appropriate. You can say he was a bad dad or had horrible misogynistic views but when someone’s talking about children losing a dad they’re talking about children losing a dad. I don’t really think you can make conjecture on whether or not they’d suffer. They’ll never know any different. And that’s what’s tragic. This children are innocent we need to stop dragging him into discussions about the kids
The “but” implies that it’s a counterpoint in itself, but I can see how you missed it. In a conversation about his daughters, sure. But I’m referring to the conversations about him where people are bringing up his daughters. Yes, it’s tragic that they lost a father. But using them as a shield to deflect when people are bringing up the very real bad things he said and did in life only opens the discussion to the things he said pertaining to them in his life