
I don’t see how a government’s homophobia makes bombing civilians any more acceptable. Those are two separate issues. You can acknowledge that their government holds harmful views while also recognizing that targeting civilians is still wrong. Human rights don’t disappear because of who’s in charge, innocent people are still innocent. And honestly, comparing which side is “more homophobic” doesn’t add anything to the discussion, it’s just not relevant to what’s happening right now.
You’re really to draw an equivalence between the two but you’re evoking the big difference between them in your question itself. Israel *has* a government. It has one government that operates throughout its whole territory. Its government is real, and actually functions; its people are not an occupied people. There is no real, functioning Palestinian state because there is no sovereignty for the Palestinian people. An occupied people has no state but that of its occupiers.