Yeah the normalization happens because of this: Men beat up women a lot > Men shouldn’t touch a woman no matter wjay > man tries defending himself from violent woman> people see, and men attack the man who was defending himself> woman on man violence gets normalized because some think they can’t defend
So basically, men allow the women on men violence to be normalized because men on women violence is significantly more common. Solution for women on men violence to stop being normalized is for men to stop getting emotional and stop beating up women. Until then, don’t expect much