The people who write laws can consider the relevant issues. Like when life begins, when personhood begins, the mother's freedom and bodily autonomy, society's interest in preventing murder past a certain point. No one on the supreme court when they decided roe v wade was a woman. So it's not an identity contest. It just takes some drilling down to the philosophical issues at the root of the conflict. That being said absolutely more women should be involved.
they aren’t affected by it the same way and yet when decisions about women’s bodies are made the room is all men. this isn’t some kind of hypothetical or abstract this is a real thing that’s happening where women are not being allowed to make choices about their bodies and their voices aren’t being heard when those decisions are made