The answer is that unironically a lot of the “they deserve death” crowd only mean it when it’s like a “man in a white van handing out candy”. The old school conservative types see SA within families and family friend circles as a “personal matter”
The whole “they deserve the death penalty” is stupid posturing, all it does is make SA for the victims even more traumatizing because now they don’t go to the police because like 90% of the time it’s done by close family members or family friends