
I will say there’s often some light between these two sides. Legit think there are a lot of progressive-ish men who consider themselves feminists but get their feelings hurt when women say terrible things about men in general as if they’re a monolith. Cause they’re like ‘well I’m doing all I can, why should I get clumped in with those guys?’. Not saying getting your feelings hurt is the worst thing in the world but there is some nuance here
Maybe sometimes but I don’t think always or even often. I mean I’m gonna call myself out here but there are some of these comments that I’ll comment on, more for the conversation than anything else. But I do think it’s not always helpful to defend making terrible statements about all men, then expect all good men to be fine with the erroneous and offensive label/accusation.