Also it happens. There’s a memoir this reminds me of where the authors father was a closeted gay man, married his wife that loved him, was a pretty shitty father and had affairs with multiple men, and couldn’t take it anymore and ended his life. It happens. Repressing hurts yourself and inevitably others
No you’re attracted to men and women you might have this idea of what percent of you is fruity pie that doesn’t mean you’re straight you’re 100% not straight the second you have not straight attraction. You might be bi pan Omni Demi you might even be gay all of those are as straight as each other. You might be bi but that doesn’t make you any more straight than a gay man
I’m not arguing with you I’m just using different words to express the same idea because you don’t need to justify I’m 20% into men and 80% into women. You’re not an alloy. You’re just not straight and along with being not straight you can be any number of queer identities
Aw thanks anywho I hope at least you have told your future wife and life partner about your past because it would be pretty uncool of you to marry her without her knowing this part of your past and as an ordained minister and someone who by god is ordained to offer marriage counseling you’re not being a good partner unless you tell her.
Well I am. Sorry if you don’t believe it. As long as your future life partner knows all about your homosexual past then go for it I wish yall well. That being said let’s look at Matthew 7:1-2 and Luke 18:9-14 Specifically “for all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted” I am a lowly creature and child no more holy than a cracked out hooker but god loves us all the same.
So you can say I am no man of god. You can question my faith and you can try to deny my relationship with god. But I know and god knows where I stand. And I can honestly say without a single bit of doubt in my soul that my creator loves me and cherishes me. And my name is written in their book. And he don’t care I’m gay in fact god is gonna hook me up with a cute bf
And like I said you don’t have the power to validate my faith and I don’t need you to validate my faith. God and I are good we besties god is my shepherd god as my whiteness god is here for me the good bad and the ugly because to god we are all beautiful and precious it’s sad if you can’t see that and it breaks my heart that you feel like you have to censor yourself before god