thats not what im saying. im saying that when you give people a space to discuss/request their most private sexual fantasies, the men get so fucking inhumanely disgusting it would bring the world to its knees cause so many men would be fired and shunned from their communities. like i promise you cannot even fathom how disgusting it gets. not just involving minors, feces, inanimate objects or animals. it somehow gets weirder and worse.
a pretty common one is wanting to be swallowed whole. there are a lot of fetishes about wanting to be completely inside the throat or stomach, or just a general infatuation with vocal chords for some reason. and a less common, more horrifying one is wanting to see bugs (like cockroaches worms and maggots) be released into a womans vagina and crawl around.