“Objectification” women do that too. Same with stereotypes “Unpaid maternity leave” that affects both parties, not just women. And it’s financial issue “Underrepresented” that doesn’t mean discrimination just because there are disparities there. And if women are underrepresented in those areas, that means they’re overrepresented in others?
Never said that women are perfect. Nobody is. Women can be just as flawed as men, and vice versa. Personally, I wouldn’t want to be with a woman who would intentionally seek out people who’ll treat them like trash, so I don’t see how it’s proof that being a POS is the only way to get women.